MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
article: 3 Realities of dating a MILF you probably haven't thought through
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
he11, I've lived them...missed a few. [4] she still thinks she's entitled to the man she could land without the kids... not realizing kids drops her score 2 or 3 points(more if the kids are younger) [5] after being pumped and dumped by the guys she thinks she is entitled to land...she hates men.
Viagra4Soul
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As they said in Jerry Maquire - "don't shoplift the pooty" with a MILF and kids, unless you're ready for it to end really badly.