MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: 3 Realities of dating a MILF you probably haven't thought through
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
he11, I've lived them...missed a few. [4] she still thinks she's entitled to the man she could land without the kids... not realizing kids drops her score 2 or 3 points(more if the kids are younger) [5] after being pumped and dumped by the guys she thinks she is entitled to land...she hates men.
Viagra4Soul
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As they said in Jerry Maquire - "don't shoplift the pooty" with a MILF and kids, unless you're ready for it to end really badly.