MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I take it you dated a single mom and it didn't go too well?Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?If you date a single mom, she will secretly think you are beta for dating a single mom.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes. It goes back to what @Desdinova is always talking about with high number lists. She's always going to compare you to the guy/guys that she wanted to be with forever, before you met her.Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?
Wise man.Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
1. She’s no wimp. Single moms are tough and independent.
Sure they are independant as long as the gov force daddy to pay
2. She’s already a great mom. (And weren’t you looking for someone who would be a great mother? Look no further!)
so why not marry a granny after all she has plenty of experience about being a woman?
3. She’s incredibly patient, but doesn’t have a lot of tolerance for bad behavior. She’ll be good for you.
The same patience she had with her former husband before kicking him out
4. She doesn’t play games. She doesn’t have time to just fool around. She takes her relationships seriously.
As serious as an investor takes his stocks and investments
5. She’ll only keep you around if the relationship is a good thing for both her and her kids. You won’t have to guess if she’s into you.
Surely not, my wallet will do
6. Single moms are easy to pamper. (They don’t get breaks very often. Hint, hint.)
Just ask daddy how low maintenance she was
7. She’s loyal — and is fiercely protective of her little brood.
Very loyal ask again for feedbacks from her ex husband under the bridge
8. She can articulate what she wants and needs from a relationship.
She surely does, too bad you dont match no matter what..
9. Single moms are both practical and fun. There’s no room for diva behavior.
Because all the room has been taken from her ass and the kids toys
10. She’s no longer a party girl, but a fun night out is still very welcome.
So you take her for stability yet are forced to hit the club?
11. She’s selfless. Single moms put others’ needs before their own.
absolutely we are all sure about it
12. Moms make the best lasagna and give the best back rubs.
This one could be but you still pay the bill
13. You’ll get to take part in adventures to amusement parks, the zoo and the park. Bonus: You’ll have an excuse to play with toys.
Cause you cant do that with a single girl? dont 18 yrs old girls go to the zoo?
14. She’s adaptable. She knows that life doesn’t always go as planned and has learned how to make the best of it.
With the help of old bill and the government she surely made the best of it
15. Single moms can do it all, but are super-appreciative of a helping hand. Woo her with kindness and acts of service.
"on her majesty's service" and we aint talking about 007