MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I take it you dated a single mom and it didn't go too well?Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?If you date a single mom, she will secretly think you are beta for dating a single mom.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes. It goes back to what @Desdinova is always talking about with high number lists. She's always going to compare you to the guy/guys that she wanted to be with forever, before you met her.Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?
Wise man.Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
1. She’s no wimp. Single moms are tough and independent.
Sure they are independant as long as the gov force daddy to pay
2. She’s already a great mom. (And weren’t you looking for someone who would be a great mother? Look no further!)
so why not marry a granny after all she has plenty of experience about being a woman?
3. She’s incredibly patient, but doesn’t have a lot of tolerance for bad behavior. She’ll be good for you.
The same patience she had with her former husband before kicking him out
4. She doesn’t play games. She doesn’t have time to just fool around. She takes her relationships seriously.
As serious as an investor takes his stocks and investments
5. She’ll only keep you around if the relationship is a good thing for both her and her kids. You won’t have to guess if she’s into you.
Surely not, my wallet will do
6. Single moms are easy to pamper. (They don’t get breaks very often. Hint, hint.)
Just ask daddy how low maintenance she was
7. She’s loyal — and is fiercely protective of her little brood.
Very loyal ask again for feedbacks from her ex husband under the bridge
8. She can articulate what she wants and needs from a relationship.
She surely does, too bad you dont match no matter what..
9. Single moms are both practical and fun. There’s no room for diva behavior.
Because all the room has been taken from her ass and the kids toys
10. She’s no longer a party girl, but a fun night out is still very welcome.
So you take her for stability yet are forced to hit the club?
11. She’s selfless. Single moms put others’ needs before their own.
absolutely we are all sure about it
12. Moms make the best lasagna and give the best back rubs.
This one could be but you still pay the bill
13. You’ll get to take part in adventures to amusement parks, the zoo and the park. Bonus: You’ll have an excuse to play with toys.
Cause you cant do that with a single girl? dont 18 yrs old girls go to the zoo?
14. She’s adaptable. She knows that life doesn’t always go as planned and has learned how to make the best of it.
With the help of old bill and the government she surely made the best of it
15. Single moms can do it all, but are super-appreciative of a helping hand. Woo her with kindness and acts of service.
"on her majesty's service" and we aint talking about 007