MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I take it you dated a single mom and it didn't go too well?Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?If you date a single mom, she will secretly think you are beta for dating a single mom.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes. It goes back to what @Desdinova is always talking about with high number lists. She's always going to compare you to the guy/guys that she wanted to be with forever, before you met her.Agree, but isnt the same for any girl which deep down knows she is undesiderable, fat or ugly or has been riding the c0ck carousel for decades?
Wise man.Everytime someone comes with a huge effort to convince me that he is doing me a favour I walk with shoulders on the wall...
1. She’s no wimp. Single moms are tough and independent.
Sure they are independant as long as the gov force daddy to pay
2. She’s already a great mom. (And weren’t you looking for someone who would be a great mother? Look no further!)
so why not marry a granny after all she has plenty of experience about being a woman?
3. She’s incredibly patient, but doesn’t have a lot of tolerance for bad behavior. She’ll be good for you.
The same patience she had with her former husband before kicking him out
4. She doesn’t play games. She doesn’t have time to just fool around. She takes her relationships seriously.
As serious as an investor takes his stocks and investments
5. She’ll only keep you around if the relationship is a good thing for both her and her kids. You won’t have to guess if she’s into you.
Surely not, my wallet will do
6. Single moms are easy to pamper. (They don’t get breaks very often. Hint, hint.)
Just ask daddy how low maintenance she was
7. She’s loyal — and is fiercely protective of her little brood.
Very loyal ask again for feedbacks from her ex husband under the bridge
8. She can articulate what she wants and needs from a relationship.
She surely does, too bad you dont match no matter what..
9. Single moms are both practical and fun. There’s no room for diva behavior.
Because all the room has been taken from her ass and the kids toys
10. She’s no longer a party girl, but a fun night out is still very welcome.
So you take her for stability yet are forced to hit the club?
11. She’s selfless. Single moms put others’ needs before their own.
absolutely we are all sure about it
12. Moms make the best lasagna and give the best back rubs.
This one could be but you still pay the bill
13. You’ll get to take part in adventures to amusement parks, the zoo and the park. Bonus: You’ll have an excuse to play with toys.
Cause you cant do that with a single girl? dont 18 yrs old girls go to the zoo?
14. She’s adaptable. She knows that life doesn’t always go as planned and has learned how to make the best of it.
With the help of old bill and the government she surely made the best of it
15. Single moms can do it all, but are super-appreciative of a helping hand. Woo her with kindness and acts of service.
"on her majesty's service" and we aint talking about 007