MatureDJ
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
article: 11 People Over 30 Explain Why They're *Really* Single
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Desdinova
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It's nice to see High Score Theory in action here...
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- 48-year-old female here, been single for nearly 20 years. Serious trust issues prevented me from pursuing anything after my last relationship
- 38 [year-old] female here. I'm pretty much the same. I have not met anyone worth changing the way I live for.
- I gave up years ago.
- I'm close to forty, and I don't have the time or inclination to put up with people who half-ass their relationships or don't want to take responsibility for things in their life that need addressing.
- 30-year-old here. I've been divorced for a year and a half now. Right after the divorce, I decided to get myself together before dating again. Since then I've dated a few times but I haven't met anybody that I've wanted to continue dating.
- I always tried to make others happy, now it's my turn.
- For me, it's a combination of being picky and not meeting anyone that I really felt like was on the same page as what I was hoping to get out of a relationship.
- I'm single because my child's father abandoned us
- I was quickly and only briefly married
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All these women are alpha widows. They're all met "the one" and fvcked up the relationship somehow, whether it be choosing the wrong man or behaving like a demanding and unfeminine creature that no man worth his salt wants to put up with. They're all now expiring in their looks and ability to make (more) children, so they're trying to pretend that they're happy being single and missing out on their "soulmate".
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Moderate social anxiety doesn't help, though I do put myself out there from time to time.
It's like, yeah, it might be cool to have a boyfriend.
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These two chicks are ugly and probably got used a couple of times for just sex. As with any woman, they want that confident, funny alpha male. Because they're ugly, they were unwilling to settle for the betas who will happily and desperately date ugly chicks. They may have been used for sex a few times, and that's about it.
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- 48-year-old female here, been single for nearly 20 years. Serious trust issues prevented me from pursuing anything after my last relationship
- 38 [year-old] female here. I'm pretty much the same. I have not met anyone worth changing the way I live for.
- I gave up years ago.
- I'm close to forty, and I don't have the time or inclination to put up with people who half-ass their relationships or don't want to take responsibility for things in their life that need addressing.
- 30-year-old here. I've been divorced for a year and a half now. Right after the divorce, I decided to get myself together before dating again. Since then I've dated a few times but I haven't met anybody that I've wanted to continue dating.
- I always tried to make others happy, now it's my turn.
- For me, it's a combination of being picky and not meeting anyone that I really felt like was on the same page as what I was hoping to get out of a relationship.
- I'm single because my child's father abandoned us
- I was quickly and only briefly married
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All these women are alpha widows. They're all met "the one" and fvcked up the relationship somehow, whether it be choosing the wrong man or behaving like a demanding and unfeminine creature that no man worth his salt wants to put up with. They're all now expiring in their looks and ability to make (more) children, so they're trying to pretend that they're happy being single and missing out on their "soulmate".
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Moderate social anxiety doesn't help, though I do put myself out there from time to time.
It's like, yeah, it might be cool to have a boyfriend.
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These two chicks are ugly and probably got used a couple of times for just sex. As with any woman, they want that confident, funny alpha male. Because they're ugly, they were unwilling to settle for the betas who will happily and desperately date ugly chicks. They may have been used for sex a few times, and that's about it.
Who Dares Win
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Ubercat and Desdinova, agree with both of you guys.
I tought the same exact thing, basically expired goods who pretend they got it right.
Asking women who passed the wall why they are single is like asking a homeless guy why he doesnt attend fancy places and listen at him to tell how he doesnt like to waste time looking for a parking place or wear a suit.
Just one thing about some of them being alpha widowed, I believe it may be the case for some while others just never met someone who matched their irrealistic expectations so simply passed the hand.
I tought the same exact thing, basically expired goods who pretend they got it right.
Asking women who passed the wall why they are single is like asking a homeless guy why he doesnt attend fancy places and listen at him to tell how he doesnt like to waste time looking for a parking place or wear a suit.
Just one thing about some of them being alpha widowed, I believe it may be the case for some while others just never met someone who matched their irrealistic expectations so simply passed the hand.
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Women will generally avoid expressing their thoughts about the men who left them with an emotional imprint.I firmly believe that all woman have a man at the top of their high score list. You have to remember that all of this is based on emotional imprints. You also need to remember that it's a woman's imagination and fantasies that can further deepen those emotional imprints. Those women might even have George Clooney at the top of their lists, simply because they heavily fantasized about him for years, what he's like in bed, what their wedding would be like, etc etc. In that case, she would have caused herself to be alpha-widowed simply by her own fantasies and imagination, regardless of how stupid and unrealistic it is.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Anyway I would like to read guy in their 30s answering to the same question.
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Just an endless pile of women who are justifying why they don't have a relationship. Never married women above the age of 30 are particularly toxic. They don't have a man because they likely have ruined any chances that they did have for a relationship when they still had value. Most of these women still think that they are some sort of prize or an American Idol winner who somehow has not managed to make it to Hollywood Week yet, despite queuing up in line for 13 straight seasons.
Thanks for the laugh.
Thanks for the laugh.
Not an ounce of humility or honest assessment in any of these. Just as expected, coming from expired women. At least, us men will man up for acting like betas, but women will never admit that they probably shouldn't have wh0red it up when they were younger.
