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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
article: 10 Signs You’re Headed For A Sexless Marriage
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Staying awake till she falls asleep before going to bed may be a good suggestion to middle aged men married to middle aged women.
The main reason I’m not looking forward to marriage is that it just become a business contract. Instead of going on fun dates and having sechs, you’re busy:
-arguing about chores
-raising kids
-arguing about money and bills
-working all day so you can afford the house and kids
-fighting over in laws
-dealing with random annoyances about your partner
If I get married I expect to be sleeping in a separate bed by the 2nd month and filing for divorce by year 2. Unless the woman is well behaved and always open to sechs
-arguing about chores
-raising kids
-arguing about money and bills
-working all day so you can afford the house and kids
-fighting over in laws
-dealing with random annoyances about your partner
If I get married I expect to be sleeping in a separate bed by the 2nd month and filing for divorce by year 2. Unless the woman is well behaved and always open to sechs
there is no married woman who is well behaved and always open to sex. forget it. no matter how cool you are, how successful you are, how well built you are, getting married is a game for all women, plain and simple. once you marry them, they've won the game. it's game over.