MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
article: 10 Signs You’re Headed For A Sexless Marriage
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Staying awake till she falls asleep before going to bed may be a good suggestion to middle aged men married to middle aged women.
The main reason I’m not looking forward to marriage is that it just become a business contract. Instead of going on fun dates and having sechs, you’re busy:
-arguing about chores
-raising kids
-arguing about money and bills
-working all day so you can afford the house and kids
-fighting over in laws
-dealing with random annoyances about your partner
If I get married I expect to be sleeping in a separate bed by the 2nd month and filing for divorce by year 2. Unless the woman is well behaved and always open to sechs
-arguing about chores
-raising kids
-arguing about money and bills
-working all day so you can afford the house and kids
-fighting over in laws
-dealing with random annoyances about your partner
If I get married I expect to be sleeping in a separate bed by the 2nd month and filing for divorce by year 2. Unless the woman is well behaved and always open to sechs
there is no married woman who is well behaved and always open to sex. forget it. no matter how cool you are, how successful you are, how well built you are, getting married is a game for all women, plain and simple. once you marry them, they've won the game. it's game over.