"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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article: 10 Common Reasons For A Sexless Marriage, According To Sex Therapists

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Took me too long in life to figure that one out.
Ive had it hammered home. Most of my best intentions where met with ungratefulness. Of course it depends upon the type of woman. Man needs to throttle and guage his giving and acts of service.
 

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Ive had it hammered home. Most of my best intentions where met with ungratefulness. Of course it depends upon the type of woman. Man needs to throttle and guage his giving and acts of service.
I'd say the vast majority of women are ungrateful. They simply assume that people (mostly men) are going to selflessly do things for them. And the rare payback that they give for these acts of servitude are minimal and infrequent at best. And on those rare moments, they expect you to act like they did the most amazing thing in the world for you. You know, after you've literally broken your a$$ to make them happy and they shrug their shoulders like that is an everyday occurrence.

This is the danger of relationships for women, it encourages laziness. Maybe not before the modern legal system but now? LTRs, marriages and kids are the ticket to easy street for women. They collect resources, sometimes from multiple men, and then sit around like the sun shines on their a$$ every day.

This is the true issue of our age in the west, the breakdown of the traditional family, relationships that are no longer balanced. Most of the ills in our society can be traced back to toxic feminism.
 

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When i was young i has big $ Hugh Hefner fantasies. I was lucky to have been with women who were physically attracted to me. Some $ came later. After the $ was people attracted for that. And i learned the hard way. At a mans core should be attractive qualities and strengths that he can attract without $. I earn $ and motivated to earn more for myself and my children. Women who want to get to know me will do so with little to none cash outlay. You. dont get to learn someone by throwing money around. Physical attraction is crucial. This means sex and affection will happen early.
 
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