Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol nice
I don't know the whole story because you left out a lot of detail. carried herself in an obnoxious way how? what did she say to you? how did she offend you? why was she talking to you to begin with?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
You’re part of the problem.
At Hooters of all places and I guess she either worked there and was there on her day off or she knew someone who worked there. I’m at the bar and she comes over with the opener “hey cowboy, if you buy me a drink I may consider sitting next to you”. Said what I said. End of story. Not very compelling. But I did it because women need to understand that’s not the way to talk to a man.
I agree with you. she obviously thought all men are desperate simps. great job.
It's sad to see a woman getting old but good job anyway. If all men were like this we wouldn't be having the problems that we do in the west.
My overall impression is that the OP is decent and he prefaced this by saying he wouldnt answer like that typically. this makes me convinced she was arrogant as she probably was her whole life and her younger days. Karma is hard pill to swallow (suppository in this case, and kudos to OP for delivering it).
I always go up to women and tell them that if they suck my dik I might consider buying them a drink.
Hilarious!
If I were told this by a woman my age or younger, I'd get a creative response without buying a drink. No idea how the interplay would go. Over the course of my life, I've bought more drinks on dates than I have when randomly obtaining prospects.
at least I don't post a vague story with no beginning and no end.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I posted this while I was there, dude. I was also like 4 drinks in. Next time I’ll wait til I get home to type out all the details.
Her mannerisms as well as her loud mouth gave the impression she thought she was hot ****. Very annoying to me and not something I go for.
That’s cool. If it ever happens again, turn a situation like that into being instantly sexual and power oriented, - I’ll let you sit on my lap if you buy your own drink …
