"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Arrogant Friends.

CrazyAsianBiker

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Ok sosuave....

I have a question for all the advanced DJ's or people that might know about this subject in general.

WHAT. Do you do about arrogant friends.

You know, the hypocritical, ones that are skilled in Don Juaning.... Yet... They choose to use it or against you or bust your balls in front of girls.

When you bring it up to them in front of their face... They find an even wittier way of making what they did seem completely innocent and that it was YOU who is thinking of it in that light and WHY would you even think of it like that?

I'll give examples.

Friend : So what did you do yesterday?

Me : Fried some eggs, made some steak.

Friend : You eat steak? Steak is for pussies, eggs are for queers.

Me : Are you ****ing stupid or something.

Friend : What??? Why are you calling me stupid, i think steak is for pussies and eggs are for queers!!

Me : So you're basing your opinion on absolutely nothing and everything you're saying makes no sense.

Friend : This conversation is over, i don't want to talk about this anymore.


That was an extremely ridiculous example...

But these types of friends REALLY bust my game sometimes.

They are nothing but a facade and i can easily beat all of their asses... But that would just make me look even worse.

WHAT do you do about this?

There always seems to be that arrogant, "I'm better than all of you." Friend that just puts you in an extremely disrespectable light by the women near you....

Not just that but they also make your music bad and basically anything badass you want to do seem just a little less badass.

I want to hear feedback from you guys to see if you guys already have a set plan on this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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howardalex

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CrazyAsianBiker said:
Ok sosuave....

I have a question for all the advanced DJ's or people that might know about this subject in general.

WHAT. Do you do about arrogant friends.

You know, the hypocritical, ones that are skilled in Don Juaning.... Yet... They choose to use it or against you or bust your balls in front of girls.

When you bring it up to them in front of their face... They find an even wittier way of making what they did seem completely innocent and that it was YOU who is thinking of it in that light and WHY would you even think of it like that?

I'll give examples.

Friend : So what did you do yesterday?

Me : Fried some eggs, made some steak.

Friend : You eat steak? Steak is for pussies, eggs are for queers.

Me : Are you ****ing stupid or something.

Friend : What??? Why are you calling me stupid, i think steak is for pussies and eggs are for queers!!

Me : So you're basing your opinion on absolutely nothing and everything you're saying makes no sense.

Friend : This conversation is over, i don't want to talk about this anymore.


That was an extremely ridiculous example...

But these types of friends REALLY bust my game sometimes.

They are nothing but a facade and i can easily beat all of their asses... But that would just make me look even worse.

WHAT do you do about this?

There always seems to be that arrogant, "I'm better than all of you." Friend that just puts you in an extremely disrespectable light by the women near you....

Not just that but they also make your music bad and basically anything badass you want to do seem just a little less badass.

I want to hear feedback from you guys to see if you guys already have a set plan on this.
my suggestion : get some new friends...
 

Porky

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the fact that you're reacting to it is why this stupid highschool sh!t is working.

first of all, get some new friends. yours are dumbasses.

secondly, when they do say this crap, just say "that's funny" in a very dry tone and move the conversation along, ideally with somebody else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nicenomore

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my problem is somewhat similar...
guys(i mean all guys) eventually start hooting or calling out my name when i even talk to a girl in my class. If found outside , well guys still discuss about it...probably cuz they themselves are utter failures with girls.

what can be done in such a situation ..any ideas?????
 

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nicenomore said:
my problem is somewhat similar...
guys(i mean all guys) eventually start hooting or calling out my name when i even talk to a girl in my class. If found outside , well guys still discuss about it...probably cuz they themselves are utter failures with girls.

what can be done in such a situation ..any ideas?????
A few of my friends are naturals, i observed that in all these situations they just ignored the other people or laughed it off and continued running their game. I guess you need to be really confident to counter such situations
 

Patrick124

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my 2nd group of friends last year did that. n they a few would rag on me cause theyd never seen me get with girls, n i dont go around like "yo i ****ed so and so."
this year i jsut decide to say **** em. if is ee em at partie sn whatnot, cool. if not, w/e. i still say hi to em n talk to em, but i'll sit with my other boys as lunch.
 
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