"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Arrogant Friends.

CrazyAsianBiker

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Ok sosuave....

I have a question for all the advanced DJ's or people that might know about this subject in general.

WHAT. Do you do about arrogant friends.

You know, the hypocritical, ones that are skilled in Don Juaning.... Yet... They choose to use it or against you or bust your balls in front of girls.

When you bring it up to them in front of their face... They find an even wittier way of making what they did seem completely innocent and that it was YOU who is thinking of it in that light and WHY would you even think of it like that?

I'll give examples.

Friend : So what did you do yesterday?

Me : Fried some eggs, made some steak.

Friend : You eat steak? Steak is for pussies, eggs are for queers.

Me : Are you ****ing stupid or something.

Friend : What??? Why are you calling me stupid, i think steak is for pussies and eggs are for queers!!

Me : So you're basing your opinion on absolutely nothing and everything you're saying makes no sense.

Friend : This conversation is over, i don't want to talk about this anymore.


That was an extremely ridiculous example...

But these types of friends REALLY bust my game sometimes.

They are nothing but a facade and i can easily beat all of their asses... But that would just make me look even worse.

WHAT do you do about this?

There always seems to be that arrogant, "I'm better than all of you." Friend that just puts you in an extremely disrespectable light by the women near you....

Not just that but they also make your music bad and basically anything badass you want to do seem just a little less badass.

I want to hear feedback from you guys to see if you guys already have a set plan on this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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howardalex

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CrazyAsianBiker said:
Ok sosuave....

I have a question for all the advanced DJ's or people that might know about this subject in general.

WHAT. Do you do about arrogant friends.

You know, the hypocritical, ones that are skilled in Don Juaning.... Yet... They choose to use it or against you or bust your balls in front of girls.

When you bring it up to them in front of their face... They find an even wittier way of making what they did seem completely innocent and that it was YOU who is thinking of it in that light and WHY would you even think of it like that?

I'll give examples.

Friend : So what did you do yesterday?

Me : Fried some eggs, made some steak.

Friend : You eat steak? Steak is for pussies, eggs are for queers.

Me : Are you ****ing stupid or something.

Friend : What??? Why are you calling me stupid, i think steak is for pussies and eggs are for queers!!

Me : So you're basing your opinion on absolutely nothing and everything you're saying makes no sense.

Friend : This conversation is over, i don't want to talk about this anymore.


That was an extremely ridiculous example...

But these types of friends REALLY bust my game sometimes.

They are nothing but a facade and i can easily beat all of their asses... But that would just make me look even worse.

WHAT do you do about this?

There always seems to be that arrogant, "I'm better than all of you." Friend that just puts you in an extremely disrespectable light by the women near you....

Not just that but they also make your music bad and basically anything badass you want to do seem just a little less badass.

I want to hear feedback from you guys to see if you guys already have a set plan on this.
my suggestion : get some new friends...
 

Porky

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the fact that you're reacting to it is why this stupid highschool sh!t is working.

first of all, get some new friends. yours are dumbasses.

secondly, when they do say this crap, just say "that's funny" in a very dry tone and move the conversation along, ideally with somebody else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my problem is somewhat similar...
guys(i mean all guys) eventually start hooting or calling out my name when i even talk to a girl in my class. If found outside , well guys still discuss about it...probably cuz they themselves are utter failures with girls.

what can be done in such a situation ..any ideas?????
 

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nicenomore said:
my problem is somewhat similar...
guys(i mean all guys) eventually start hooting or calling out my name when i even talk to a girl in my class. If found outside , well guys still discuss about it...probably cuz they themselves are utter failures with girls.

what can be done in such a situation ..any ideas?????
A few of my friends are naturals, i observed that in all these situations they just ignored the other people or laughed it off and continued running their game. I guess you need to be really confident to counter such situations
 

Patrick124

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my 2nd group of friends last year did that. n they a few would rag on me cause theyd never seen me get with girls, n i dont go around like "yo i ****ed so and so."
this year i jsut decide to say **** em. if is ee em at partie sn whatnot, cool. if not, w/e. i still say hi to em n talk to em, but i'll sit with my other boys as lunch.
 
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