"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Arrogance/being ****y..when it gets out of hand

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Oh man. It's starting to take over me. I've always been a ****y/arrogant guy before I came onto this site. However, now i'm ****y/funny to the extreme. Honestly. I can't help it. It takes over me. It makes some of my friends pissed off too. What do I do

oh and it's also gotten to the point where i've lost my desire to go look for random women, because I feel i'm better than them and don't need them. WTF, am i going on the right path here or should I take a deep breath and repath
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm the same place myself but it comes in waves. Sometimes I'm ubercocky *******man or I'm highenergy dancing playah flirting all over the place.
 
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exactly man!

today for example I was talking to this chubby chick friend of mine. I don't want her for anything, but the topic of oral sex came up. I jokingly told her I wouldn't want to eat her out anyways because it would probably taste like pork! I then said that I wouldn't want her to give me head either because I'm afraid she'd eat my wiener.

haha. i can be such an ******* sometimes
 
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so what's the best thing to do when my confidence is so high that it's actually hurting me more than helping?
 
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Depends if it's really hurting....

Seriously read my LR: 3xEASY which I posted yesterday or something, there you'll see major ****yness, same in todays OR/FR/FU even though it was written not sober and very rambling :p

It can be very good it just might seem like it's not :p You really just gotta find out if it's working or not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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> I jokingly told her I wouldn't want to eat her out anyways
> because it would probably taste like pork

Ok, yes it was a funny joke. But the F in C/F should be funny to the audience (here, the girl) not just to you. I don't know this girl, but my first guess would be that this was most likely NOT funny to her, so to answer your question about when is it too much, it's too much if you come across as rude. (funny = good, confident=good, arrogant=ok depending on the girl, rude=bad)
 
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lol, you actually told her she shouldn't give you head because she'd probably eat it? she'd only find that funny if she wasn't that fat
 
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lol... thanks for the laugh it helped wake me up
 
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