You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well said, haha. I thought the point was to get hard... Honestly, while grinding only worry about what makes you feel good. The girl is trying to please you - that's why grinding happens, to please the guy.Michele said:it is not a problem...they're stroking their ego knowing they turned you on... then you'll stroke your ego if they get turned on by it by them grinding harder.
if not... you'll go hope stroking something else... by yourself.
Let me give you an example of the right way to do it if you'd like to grind:phillylove said:also, what are some tips you guys have for grinding with a chick? how do you initiate and what to do during?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
when am grinding i tend to wear only boxers or ill wear shorts and go commando.If its real dark ill end up sagging my pants real real low.phillylove said:thanks fth, but do you have any suggestions on what i should do while grinding with a chick? cool variations? hand placement?
First time I went to a "club"phillylove said:Hi. Theres a lot of dances at my school and I love dancing especially with the girls. However, sooner or later we start to bump and grind, which usually leads to me getting an erection. It makes me feel really awkward, and I don't want to even think about how the girl feels. Is my erection a problem and if it is what are some solutions?