You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well said, haha. I thought the point was to get hard... Honestly, while grinding only worry about what makes you feel good. The girl is trying to please you - that's why grinding happens, to please the guy.Michele said:it is not a problem...they're stroking their ego knowing they turned you on... then you'll stroke your ego if they get turned on by it by them grinding harder.
if not... you'll go hope stroking something else... by yourself.
Let me give you an example of the right way to do it if you'd like to grind:phillylove said:also, what are some tips you guys have for grinding with a chick? how do you initiate and what to do during?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when am grinding i tend to wear only boxers or ill wear shorts and go commando.If its real dark ill end up sagging my pants real real low.phillylove said:thanks fth, but do you have any suggestions on what i should do while grinding with a chick? cool variations? hand placement?
First time I went to a "club"phillylove said:Hi. Theres a lot of dances at my school and I love dancing especially with the girls. However, sooner or later we start to bump and grind, which usually leads to me getting an erection. It makes me feel really awkward, and I don't want to even think about how the girl feels. Is my erection a problem and if it is what are some solutions?