She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nope. The training and nutrition principals are outdated and only work if you're on steroids and have incredible genetics. Just do some reading around the internet. There are much better routines and diet plans out there.Originally posted by Puma
Is this book worth buying?
Amen...Originally posted by enkai
NEWBIE101 - You truly are a nubie, so stay a nubie, read more, learn more then speak...Arnolds principles still stand today, the only reason to say that you have to have great genetics is if you go by the workouts he prescribes, not the principles, and there arn't really any nutrition priniples in there either, but just a basic guide on a good died, which he goes in to talk about protein, fat, and carbs, which any site will tell ya...Now how can you diss someone that built one of the greatest bodies in history, damn nubie...ok anyhow...if you're serious about training look into gettin' ian kinds book get buffed you can get it at getbuffed.net and also look into obtaining a copy of charles poliquin principles, it's extremly hard to find this book because its out of print, but if you do find it, cherish it...it's a great read.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not really, unless you like looking at pictures of Arnold. Maybe it can motivate you?Originally posted by Puma
Is this book worth buying?
Of course, nothing is perfect. Nowaday, you can find everything on the net but the thing is, having a book, by you, wouldn't that make it easier on your life? Rather than, while working out, you have to run to your computer, then wait for it to load, then get on the net, then get to the website, then wait, then look for it, while you have a book.Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Killer-No I don't have the book. I have seen it though in book stores, I admit some of the pictures and stuff are good. But, if some newbie is looking for a routine or diet plan and wants to try Arnolds, I wouldn't suggest it. Yes, you are right about the history, pictures, and exercise descriptions being good, but you can find that all here on the internet. Sure there are things about outdated rules and principals since there are new discoveries in these fields of science every year. For instance, I can guarantee you that the best creatine on the market right now is better than the best one in 1990. And lastly, no I'm not that huge. I'm decent size. But let me ask you this, since when does a person's size determine his knowledge in the subject of bodybuilding. All the IBFF pro's trainers are smaller than them, does this mean that they don't know as much as them? Yea, that's what I thought.
Are you a member over there? I am. If you are what's your username? Yes, that is the ultimate forum.Originally posted by daman01
If you really want to learn how to get big and cut go to bodybuilding.com. There are hundreds of articles on things from training to nutrition from some of the greatest bodybuilders. They also have a good discussion forum there too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea I am a member there. My name is agjas001. I haven't posted there in a few months. I think the forum has gone down a bit lately. There seems to be a lot of meathead asholes there. I mainly look at the articles there. I also buy some supplements too, they have good prices.Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Are you a member over there? I am. If you are what's your username? Yes, that is the ultimate forum.
Well some of the sections have gone down the drain. But if you go to where I hang out like workout programs and nutrition there is some good advice. My username is bignbuff.Originally posted by daman01
Yea I am a member there. My name is agjas001. I haven't posted there in a few months. I think the forum has gone down a bit lately. There seems to be a lot of meathead asholes there. I mainly look at the articles there. I also buy some supplements too, they have good prices.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.