Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nope. The training and nutrition principals are outdated and only work if you're on steroids and have incredible genetics. Just do some reading around the internet. There are much better routines and diet plans out there.Originally posted by Puma
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Amen...Originally posted by enkai
NEWBIE101 - You truly are a nubie, so stay a nubie, read more, learn more then speak...Arnolds principles still stand today, the only reason to say that you have to have great genetics is if you go by the workouts he prescribes, not the principles, and there arn't really any nutrition priniples in there either, but just a basic guide on a good died, which he goes in to talk about protein, fat, and carbs, which any site will tell ya...Now how can you diss someone that built one of the greatest bodies in history, damn nubie...ok anyhow...if you're serious about training look into gettin' ian kinds book get buffed you can get it at getbuffed.net and also look into obtaining a copy of charles poliquin principles, it's extremly hard to find this book because its out of print, but if you do find it, cherish it...it's a great read.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not really, unless you like looking at pictures of Arnold. Maybe it can motivate you?Originally posted by Puma
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Of course, nothing is perfect. Nowaday, you can find everything on the net but the thing is, having a book, by you, wouldn't that make it easier on your life? Rather than, while working out, you have to run to your computer, then wait for it to load, then get on the net, then get to the website, then wait, then look for it, while you have a book.Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Killer-No I don't have the book. I have seen it though in book stores, I admit some of the pictures and stuff are good. But, if some newbie is looking for a routine or diet plan and wants to try Arnolds, I wouldn't suggest it. Yes, you are right about the history, pictures, and exercise descriptions being good, but you can find that all here on the internet. Sure there are things about outdated rules and principals since there are new discoveries in these fields of science every year. For instance, I can guarantee you that the best creatine on the market right now is better than the best one in 1990. And lastly, no I'm not that huge. I'm decent size. But let me ask you this, since when does a person's size determine his knowledge in the subject of bodybuilding. All the IBFF pro's trainers are smaller than them, does this mean that they don't know as much as them? Yea, that's what I thought.
Are you a member over there? I am. If you are what's your username? Yes, that is the ultimate forum.Originally posted by daman01
If you really want to learn how to get big and cut go to bodybuilding.com. There are hundreds of articles on things from training to nutrition from some of the greatest bodybuilders. They also have a good discussion forum there too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yea I am a member there. My name is agjas001. I haven't posted there in a few months. I think the forum has gone down a bit lately. There seems to be a lot of meathead asholes there. I mainly look at the articles there. I also buy some supplements too, they have good prices.Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Are you a member over there? I am. If you are what's your username? Yes, that is the ultimate forum.
Well some of the sections have gone down the drain. But if you go to where I hang out like workout programs and nutrition there is some good advice. My username is bignbuff.Originally posted by daman01
Yea I am a member there. My name is agjas001. I haven't posted there in a few months. I think the forum has gone down a bit lately. There seems to be a lot of meathead asholes there. I mainly look at the articles there. I also buy some supplements too, they have good prices.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.