"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Arnolds Book of Bodybuilding.

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the best book i can recommend for anyone just starting out and has no clue what to do is Arnold Schwarzeneggers guide to bodybuilding. i have the originol version that my dad gave me but there is an updated new version. if you want an ad free book without all the bull****. read this it is written by a true champion and not some overweight looser with a degree in phys ed. this is the book that motivated me to hit the weight room. it even teaches you how to train the mind to go through the workouts and the pain and to keep going.




okay im new to the post so thats probably why none of you have ever heard of me. but i am 17 ive been lifting for about a year and weight 141 and im 5 foot 7 and i bench 225 and squat 350 and deadlift 405.

i like to think those numbers are pretty good but every time i get ****y i just look at the pictures of arnold or franco columbo just so i dont loose sight of my goals you know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arnold's books are great for motivation (Education of a Bodybuilder did it for me!) and if you refer to his Encyclopedia I prefer the updated version. Me thinks his training advice is not the best for everyone though, even that which is aimed at novices, generally too many sets, exercises and workouts.

Welcome to the forum Ranger, good lifts too.
 

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Originally posted by Templeton
Me thinks his training advice is not the best for everyone though, even that which is aimed at novices, generally too many sets, exercises and workouts.
I agree
 

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I would hazard a guess that Reeves did a lil bit of Dbol towards the end of his career - all those guys had a bit of a dabble when it first came out. Must be said though that he and Reg Park both had physiques to die for.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah i always look to the old fashioned bodybuilders for motivation too. Even sandow from the turn of the century was a huge dude. truly massive and all natural.
 
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