"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For the past 2 years Ive been in the USAF though for the past few months Ive been in the process of switching to the Army. Well things finally went thru and Monday Im going to Meps to redo my contract. THings are happening pretty fast and I'm sure Ill be outta here by the end of the year. Ive been stationed here in Texas for the past year and its pretty much my home right now. Im sure some of you have read my past 2 threads on this girl I spent the night with Saturday-well Im kinda fumbling things but I guess it doesnt matter seeing how Im leaving though Im considering hanging out with her before I leave for the Army. Im going to go for infantry btw. So my life is definitely going to change quite a bit from my current lifestyle in the Air Force.
Anyways I guess Im just venting...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you know where your gonna be stationed at ? I hope you do not go to ft drum, ny that place is the pits but good luck with the u.s army though.
 
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Hmmm Might i ask why you'd leave USAF for Army?

Just seems strange to me is all... my preference would be Air Force...
 
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I'm also interested in why you decided to leave? I've talked to a lot of army guys and all have wished they'd gone USAF
 
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amnbyrd said:
For the past 2 years Ive been in the USAF though for the past few months Ive been in the process of switching to the Army. Well things finally went thru and Monday Im going to Meps to redo my contract. THings are happening pretty fast and I'm sure Ill be outta here by the end of the year. Ive been stationed here in Texas for the past year and its pretty much my home right now. Im sure some of you have read my past 2 threads on this girl I spent the night with Saturday-well Im kinda fumbling things but I guess it doesnt matter seeing how Im leaving though Im considering hanging out with her before I leave for the Army. Im going to go for infantry btw. So my life is definitely going to change quite a bit from my current lifestyle in the Air Force.
Anyways I guess Im just venting...
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God speed, and be safe, where ever you go.

Your sacrifices are appreciated by us 'older guys'. Just remember to be safe and look after the guys around you.

Best of luck to you, soldier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yea well most ppl think Im crazy for leaving the Air Force for the Army. But infantry is something Ive always wanted to do and the USAF was just my way of playing it safe. Im going to Meps Tuesday to do my contract and then the recruiter says I should be gone within 2 weeks.
To each his own I say-the Air Force just wasnt my thing. For a lot of ppl theyd like it since its more laid back and not as much physical work but its not something I take pride in.
 
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amnbyrd said:
Yea well most ppl think Im crazy for leaving the Air Force for the Army. But infantry is something Ive always wanted to do and the USAF was just my way of playing it safe. Im going to Meps Tuesday to do my contract and then the recruiter says I should be gone within 2 weeks.
To each his own I say-the Air Force just wasnt my thing. For a lot of ppl theyd like it since its more laid back and not as much physical work but its not something I take pride in.
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I understand that. Personally i love high tech stuff so Aircraft and other USAF stuff appeals to me, But i also like the "grunt work" of the Infantry.

i know quite a few people in the army here in canada and most have done tours in Afghanistan, the biggest recommendations they gave me (should i join or be drafted) was Underarmor shirts (they have one that's approved by USMC, not sure about Army) and Level 4 body armor (Ceramic plates)

One guy showed me a picture of one of those ceremic plates after taking a .50 cal. It had been pulverised into dust, but they guy survived.

God watch over you, and good hunting.
 
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