My armpits are strong, and baking soda + Mitchum works fine, but I hate having to do it twice a day. So I found out that shaving the hair off your armpits helps a lot. So I did. Now I can't close my armpits because it stings. Anyway to get rid of that?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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how did you shave your armpits? With a razor? My armpit is kinda fleshy and it cuts me 
Anhslaught
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You'll eventually get use to it. It'll stop hurting after a few times you shave it. I think your skin gets stronger or something I don't know. It hurt me a lot at first too, but now I don't even notice it.
MrFitness880
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yea sweat and deodorant into scratches or razor irritation can be a pain. just dont go to aggressive at it and you will get used to it.
AdrenalynJunkee
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I shave and yah, at first it stings. The more you do it the less it stings, however. By shaving it gives the bacteria a lot less surface area to breed (hair has a lot of it) and therefore it cuts down on the smell. You still need to use deoderant though.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I would just get an electric hair/beard trimmer and clip the hair with those. That way you can still get a close cut but without the nics of a razor blade.
AdrenalynJunkee
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I prefer the close shave of a manual razor. To each his own I guess.