"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Armpits

Bling

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My armpits are strong, and baking soda + Mitchum works fine, but I hate having to do it twice a day. So I found out that shaving the hair off your armpits helps a lot. So I did. Now I can't close my armpits because it stings. Anyway to get rid of that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pure Drive +

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how did you shave your armpits? With a razor? My armpit is kinda fleshy and it cuts me :(
 

Anhslaught

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Originally posted by Bling
My armpits are strong, and baking soda + Mitchum works fine, but I hate having to do it twice a day. So I found out that shaving the hair off your armpits helps a lot. So I did. Now I can't close my armpits because it stings. Anyway to get rid of that?
You'll eventually get use to it. It'll stop hurting after a few times you shave it. I think your skin gets stronger or something I don't know. It hurt me a lot at first too, but now I don't even notice it.
 

MrFitness880

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yea sweat and deodorant into scratches or razor irritation can be a pain. just dont go to aggressive at it and you will get used to it.
 

AdrenalynJunkee

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I shave and yah, at first it stings. The more you do it the less it stings, however. By shaving it gives the bacteria a lot less surface area to breed (hair has a lot of it) and therefore it cuts down on the smell. You still need to use deoderant though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Create Reality

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I would just get an electric hair/beard trimmer and clip the hair with those. That way you can still get a close cut but without the nics of a razor blade.
 
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