"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Argh, another effed up situation.

Joe Stud

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dont run to her to sort it out... be aloof & indifferent. wait till she contacts you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What about "a man takes what he wants"? In all honesty, I do miss her a little bit. I'm such an RAFC lol.
With reference to my previous post, before the bump, I did call her one more time - no answer.
Which was strike two. I'm done. She can contact me if she wants to, or burn the bridge.
I don't care anymore. Her loss.

PS: I believe the two strike rule applies with friends in general. It seems like a good strategy.
 

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LinkinParkROX said:
What about "a man takes what he wants"? In all honesty, I do miss her a little bit. I'm such an RAFC lol.
What does "a man takes what he wants" have to do with friendship?

You called her your "best" ff,"ff" meaning female friend.


Look dude,YOU ARE CONFUSED.

You are either confused,or you're not being honest,one of the two.

And until you get this confusion straightened out,or stop lying,YOU CANNOT BE HELPED.

Can you PLEASE just be honest? Look,DO YOU LIKE THIS GIRL? Are you attracted to her? Do you want to date her?

Because if you do,then THEN JUST SAY SO so we can help you out with the situation.

If not,then JUST SAY SO so we can help you out with the situation.

Clear this thing up for us...is she just a friend,or is she someone you're romanitcally interested in?

You say she's your "friend",then you talk about using the two strikes rule.

You say she's your friend,then you talk about a man "taking what he wants".

If you could just make up your mind one way or the other,we could give you some direction.
 

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I do believe he likes this girl, even if he doesn't realize it. He reminds me a bit of me before I realized my "best female friend" was really more than a friend. The sooner he comes to that realization the simpler his life will be.
 

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Kal0051 said:
I do believe he likes this girl, even if he doesn't realize it. He reminds me a bit of me before I realized my "best female friend" was really more than a friend. The sooner he comes to that realization the simpler his life will be.

ding ding ding. That's why most people here responded like he was talking about a girl he liked. because he talked about her as if she was a girl he likes. Which he does. He became "friends" with her when he was an AFC and we all know why afcs become friends with girls. It's because they don't have the balls to go for what they want. He's been friends with her so long he's forgotten that was his reason for befriending her. But we all know the score. He needs to let her go for 6 months, come back and run real game on her and bang her. If he's still AFC he will fall in love, and if not...she'll fall in love and he'll move on. How do I know? I did that with my best female friend. We are still good friends but she still sends me texts and emails telling me that she loves me and misses me. She's married with a kid now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kal0051 said:
I do believe he likes this girl, even if he doesn't realize it. He reminds me a bit of me before I realized my "best female friend" was really more than a friend. The sooner he comes to that realization the simpler his life will be.
+1. you have mad oneitis
 

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honesty? you think like a girl and act like one. I'm surprised you don't like d1ck. (linkinparkrox)
 
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