"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Next year I'm going to be studying abroad in Buenos Aires. Later I'll start to look into specific clubs/bars etc. but for now I just want to know if anyone can tell me about the Argentine perspective on sex, dating, and women. I've never been to Latin America before and obviously in can differ from place to place, but it's Argentina I'm interested in.

As for me, I'm a blond, blue-eyed American with good Spanish skills. Is this going to make any difference in how women in Argentina perceive me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone must know something...
 
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Well, they say "vos" instead of "tu", I think. Other than that, I can't help you.. but as long as they have ****s they know what a DJ looks like so just charge in XD
 
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I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
 
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Pilo said:
I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
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That wallet thing sounds like an easy way to invite muggings.

But, if you were 13 the last time you went, how do you know how easy the girls are?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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