"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leporello

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Next year I'm going to be studying abroad in Buenos Aires. Later I'll start to look into specific clubs/bars etc. but for now I just want to know if anyone can tell me about the Argentine perspective on sex, dating, and women. I've never been to Latin America before and obviously in can differ from place to place, but it's Argentina I'm interested in.

As for me, I'm a blond, blue-eyed American with good Spanish skills. Is this going to make any difference in how women in Argentina perceive me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Someone must know something...
 

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Well, they say "vos" instead of "tu", I think. Other than that, I can't help you.. but as long as they have ****s they know what a DJ looks like so just charge in XD
 

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I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
 

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Pilo said:
I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
That wallet thing sounds like an easy way to invite muggings.

But, if you were 13 the last time you went, how do you know how easy the girls are?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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