"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leporello

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Next year I'm going to be studying abroad in Buenos Aires. Later I'll start to look into specific clubs/bars etc. but for now I just want to know if anyone can tell me about the Argentine perspective on sex, dating, and women. I've never been to Latin America before and obviously in can differ from place to place, but it's Argentina I'm interested in.

As for me, I'm a blond, blue-eyed American with good Spanish skills. Is this going to make any difference in how women in Argentina perceive me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Someone must know something...
 

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Well, they say "vos" instead of "tu", I think. Other than that, I can't help you.. but as long as they have ****s they know what a DJ looks like so just charge in XD
 

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I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
 

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Pilo said:
I am Paraguayan, i've been in Argentina before. All I can tell you is that showing how full your wallet is will work a lot better when it comes to game. I don't know if you would be able to get laid easily but you can try. They will definetely date you and treat you better because you are from the US, but they are not as easy as the white chicks in here. I was 13 when I was there, so I don't really know much about it right now. But good luck man.
That wallet thing sounds like an easy way to invite muggings.

But, if you were 13 the last time you went, how do you know how easy the girls are?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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