“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Aren't you a little out of my league?"

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I hit the clubs last night with my bud thanks to Veterans Day off today. I never get to go out on "Thirsty Thursday" anymore b/c I work a 9-5, and with all the college girls out, it was formerly my favorite day of the week to go out. :D

Anyways, I'm chillin with my bro, having a few Captain and Cokes, having a good old time. I'm talking to this hottie for a few minutes, and everything seems OK, she's laughing and asking question after question. Then she spits out:

hb-Aren't you a little out of my league?

me-huh?

hb-well, it's just that every girl in here is looking at you. when you walked in with your friend there, me and my friends were just like "wow"

me- (confused @ this point) ok.......

hb-i mean, you could have your pick of any girl at this bar. you know that, right?

This isn't the first time that a girl has come out and basically told me that I intimidate her. And this girl was HOT, I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I got her phone#, and as we were leaving she said "I'm sure you'll call" somewhat sarcastically. wtf... :down:

I guess my question is; how do I make myself less intimidating to highly intimidated girls? :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ER!C L!VE

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Seems like you're doing something right. I wouldn't change something that works, bro.

Apply your game to even hotter girls if you're intimidating the locals ;)

Cheers!
 

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Originally posted by HOSS83
hb-Aren't you a little out of my league?
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hb-i mean, you could have your pick of any girl at this bar. you know that, right?
next time just tell her: "your special" or "i like your eyes" tell her what makes her different from others (other then ass/tits), She will be like "oh my god, he noticed that!!!"

you know haw women always say they always want to hear haw special they are, and haw much they mean to a man. well this is it. It doesn't work with AFC because they are below her, and she knows it. WHEN A REALL MAN PAYS ATTENTION TO HER THAT'S WHEN SHE FEELS SPECIAL... Because someone as big as life (in their eyes) likes them...

Just don't make it cheesy and don't do it too much
 

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Re: Re: "Aren't you a little out of my league?"

Originally posted by spider_007
next time just tell her: "your special" or "i like your eyes" tell her what makes her different from others (other then ass/tits), She will be like "oh my god, he noticed that!!!"

you know haw women always say they always want to hear haw special they are, and haw much they mean to a man. well this is it. It doesn't work with AFC because they are below her, and she knows it. WHEN A REALL MAN PAYS ATTENTION TO HER THAT'S WHEN SHE FEELS SPECIAL... Because someone as big as life (in their eyes) likes them...

Just don't make it cheesy and don't do it too much
That's the perfect answer. You were overqualified to this chick and it messed with her internals. So if that comes up again (like it probably will, since you seem cool), just qualify or give her a compliment. World righted, pants off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
"I own the league".


JC Jerkson
LOL


but yeah it>s good to play a lil bit AFC sometimes:D
 

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Re: Re: "Aren't you a little out of my league?"

Originally posted by spider_007
you know haw women always say they always want to hear haw special they are, and haw much they mean to a man. well this is it.
OK, I know that you're a Kanooker and all so I'll give you a grading curve, buh-chya spelled "how" wrong three times. Please tell me it's not "regional" thing? :D
 

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If a girl said that to me I'd turn away for a moment, have a quick look around the area and then turn back to her with a smile and say "well that's why i'm talking to you" or "i'm quite happy right here with you". Obviously not in a creepy way.
 

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Originally posted by wowiehowie
OK, I know that you're a Kanooker and all so I'll give you a grading curve, buh-chya spelled "how" wrong three times. Please tell me it's not "regional" thing? :D
yes that's haw we do it up north EHHHH!!

joking :)

i'm not originaly from Canada, i got here about 10 years ago.

english bites, whos brite idea was to make it all stupid and artsey....:p
:rolleyes: spelling ain't my thing
 

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Re: Re: Re: "Aren't you a little out of my league?"

Originally posted by seanchai
That's the perfect answer. You were overqualified to this chick and it messed with her internals. So if that comes up again (like it probably will, since you seem cool), just qualify or give her a compliment. World righted, pants off.
Right... I don't typically adhere to what everyone says on here. If I walked up to a girl and applied the whole c&f thing, girls would think "who the fvck does this prick think he is?"

For example, last month I was out with this girl and she said "You must get alot of girls; you're gorgeous", and I replied "Well so are you, that must mean you get alot of guys"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Her: aren't you outta my league
You: yeah but you might get lucky ;)


I win the forum.
 
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