"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are younger girls less receptive to cold pickups?

BigOlePappy

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I have noticed that the age of 16-18 that most of these girls don't respond well to cold approaches as well as 19-21 girls do.

16-18 They seem to act like men who are outgoing with women are losers..

Is it just me?

Are 19-21 girls more receptive and open to meeting new guys?:moon: :moon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamePendo

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At 16-18 their life revolves around their respective school. Then they start to open up to post-school experiences.

These girls have to know you some way, and you have to be "cool", and then it's a done deal, they will cling to you like . . . like . . . I don't know like what, but like something very clingy.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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SamePendo said:
At 16-18 their life revolves around their respective school. Then they start to open up to post-school experiences.

These girls have to know you some way, and you have to be "cool", and then it's a done deal, they will cling to you like . . . like . . . I don't know like what, but like something very clingy.
As strange as this may seem, a HB7-10 16-18 year old is only open to being picked up by a cool dude who is under about 25, however a dude in his 30's who although never being termed as cool in his entire life can have the ability to fvck these same babes, why this is the case I don't really know, though I have found it to be this way. :crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jack McCrack

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Unless you're in college.

Guy: "Hi I attend the University of Colo...."

High School Girl: "ZOOOMGGGGG!!!"
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
As strange as this may seem, a HB7-10 16-18 year old is only open to being picked up by a cool dude who is under about 25, however a dude in his 30's who although never being termed as cool in his entire life can have the ability to fvck these same babes, why this is the case I don't really know, though I have found it to be this way. :crazy:
I don't necessarily disagree w. you... but your statement is sort of contradictory. Please clarify if you can. Curious to see the dynamics of the point your illustrating.

Cheers'
 

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I'm in college but I drive an hour away to the school I guy to.

So I'm stuck in a town with all Highschool girls... its hard to find girls who are a little bit older..

P.S. Other than sex, highschool girls are HORRIBLE to be around.
 

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BigOlePappy said:
I'm in college but I drive an hour away to the school I guy to.

So I'm stuck in a town with all Highschool girls... its hard to find girls who are a little bit older..

P.S. Other than sex, highschool girls are HORRIBLE to be around.
Yeah they are less receptive and still stuck in the strict social circle mentality i.e. if you aren't friends with 10 of their friends they dont feel comfortable. There are exceptions though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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