"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are younger girls less receptive to cold pickups?

BigOlePappy

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I have noticed that the age of 16-18 that most of these girls don't respond well to cold approaches as well as 19-21 girls do.

16-18 They seem to act like men who are outgoing with women are losers..

Is it just me?

Are 19-21 girls more receptive and open to meeting new guys?:moon: :moon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamePendo

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At 16-18 their life revolves around their respective school. Then they start to open up to post-school experiences.

These girls have to know you some way, and you have to be "cool", and then it's a done deal, they will cling to you like . . . like . . . I don't know like what, but like something very clingy.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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SamePendo said:
At 16-18 their life revolves around their respective school. Then they start to open up to post-school experiences.

These girls have to know you some way, and you have to be "cool", and then it's a done deal, they will cling to you like . . . like . . . I don't know like what, but like something very clingy.
As strange as this may seem, a HB7-10 16-18 year old is only open to being picked up by a cool dude who is under about 25, however a dude in his 30's who although never being termed as cool in his entire life can have the ability to fvck these same babes, why this is the case I don't really know, though I have found it to be this way. :crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jack McCrack

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Unless you're in college.

Guy: "Hi I attend the University of Colo...."

High School Girl: "ZOOOMGGGGG!!!"
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
As strange as this may seem, a HB7-10 16-18 year old is only open to being picked up by a cool dude who is under about 25, however a dude in his 30's who although never being termed as cool in his entire life can have the ability to fvck these same babes, why this is the case I don't really know, though I have found it to be this way. :crazy:
I don't necessarily disagree w. you... but your statement is sort of contradictory. Please clarify if you can. Curious to see the dynamics of the point your illustrating.

Cheers'
 

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I'm in college but I drive an hour away to the school I guy to.

So I'm stuck in a town with all Highschool girls... its hard to find girls who are a little bit older..

P.S. Other than sex, highschool girls are HORRIBLE to be around.
 

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BigOlePappy said:
I'm in college but I drive an hour away to the school I guy to.

So I'm stuck in a town with all Highschool girls... its hard to find girls who are a little bit older..

P.S. Other than sex, highschool girls are HORRIBLE to be around.
Yeah they are less receptive and still stuck in the strict social circle mentality i.e. if you aren't friends with 10 of their friends they dont feel comfortable. There are exceptions though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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