"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are You the "Total Package"? How Many Of You Are Actually "A Prize"?

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What I mean is, how many of you have the looks, money, and charisma? I sometimes tend to have looks, but not money. I would think being the "total package" would really be irresistible to most women since it's so rare. Or is it rare?

I've decided to start working at this. I'll have paid off all my credit cards by this summer, and I will be able to purchase my own house some time in early 2010. In the mean time I'll lose weight and work on that killer body. About 6 months after I buy my house, I should be able to afford a nice s-class Mercedes. It may take around 2 years total, but these are things I'm working on anyway.

How many of you already have it all? Do you experience rejection much at all? How is your dating life?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Apocalypse Now

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Looks: I'm good looking enough so that I can get my foot in the door with women, but not so good looking that it intimidates them and actually hurts me. My body isn't quite up to par though, so I've been working on bulking up.

Money: I don't have it, and I don't really care if I ever get it. All I care about is being comfortable. I've also vowed to live a (mostly) debt free life.

Charisma: People tell me I'm naturally charming and charismatic.
 

Mr CIDH

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Knowlegde of the female unlogical mind winds them up. Playing with that unlogic mind gives you 'charisma'.

Giving the right emotions to a woman = what porn does to guys.

That makes you a prize in itself.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how many of you think like him,and him but the guy on the top is right what do you have out of the three things charisma,money and looks....I will tell you this i dont have ****....is all in ur mind mother****er if you learn how to control the freacking world around you ....someday you will have all of them...somedays im on top and others in the bottom...but i will never loose I will always be the best because I made
money:Damn my machine is not working no more
looks:I cant believe it that girl looked at me wrong
charisma:I sometimes dont know whos controlling me or someone that cant control himself
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I would think being the "total package" would really be irresistible to most women since it's so rare

Me too, but it has very little to do with looks, money, and charisma. All that matter about those things is how they make her feel.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1501302&postcount=8
That seems really strange coming from you. I could not disagree more with you.

Check out "ladder theory" for a far more accurate explanation of what matters. http://ladder.politicals.com/

I think a person deserves to be slapped asking questions like.... does money matter.
 

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I don't think money does matter. I have been broke all my life, and always got laid like a rock star. Maybe I have looks and charisma, but those are in the eye of the beholder. The world is full of lonely working women who can pay all of their bills and don't need money. What they want is companionship, and the array of emotions that a guy solicits when things are going well.
 
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