Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are You the "Total Package"? How Many Of You Are Actually "A Prize"?

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What I mean is, how many of you have the looks, money, and charisma? I sometimes tend to have looks, but not money. I would think being the "total package" would really be irresistible to most women since it's so rare. Or is it rare?

I've decided to start working at this. I'll have paid off all my credit cards by this summer, and I will be able to purchase my own house some time in early 2010. In the mean time I'll lose weight and work on that killer body. About 6 months after I buy my house, I should be able to afford a nice s-class Mercedes. It may take around 2 years total, but these are things I'm working on anyway.

How many of you already have it all? Do you experience rejection much at all? How is your dating life?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Apocalypse Now

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Looks: I'm good looking enough so that I can get my foot in the door with women, but not so good looking that it intimidates them and actually hurts me. My body isn't quite up to par though, so I've been working on bulking up.

Money: I don't have it, and I don't really care if I ever get it. All I care about is being comfortable. I've also vowed to live a (mostly) debt free life.

Charisma: People tell me I'm naturally charming and charismatic.
 

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Knowlegde of the female unlogical mind winds them up. Playing with that unlogic mind gives you 'charisma'.

Giving the right emotions to a woman = what porn does to guys.

That makes you a prize in itself.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many of you think like him,and him but the guy on the top is right what do you have out of the three things charisma,money and looks....I will tell you this i dont have ****....is all in ur mind mother****er if you learn how to control the freacking world around you ....someday you will have all of them...somedays im on top and others in the bottom...but i will never loose I will always be the best because I made
money:Damn my machine is not working no more
looks:I cant believe it that girl looked at me wrong
charisma:I sometimes dont know whos controlling me or someone that cant control himself
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I would think being the "total package" would really be irresistible to most women since it's so rare

Me too, but it has very little to do with looks, money, and charisma. All that matter about those things is how they make her feel.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1501302&postcount=8
That seems really strange coming from you. I could not disagree more with you.

Check out "ladder theory" for a far more accurate explanation of what matters. http://ladder.politicals.com/

I think a person deserves to be slapped asking questions like.... does money matter.
 

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I don't think money does matter. I have been broke all my life, and always got laid like a rock star. Maybe I have looks and charisma, but those are in the eye of the beholder. The world is full of lonely working women who can pay all of their bills and don't need money. What they want is companionship, and the array of emotions that a guy solicits when things are going well.
 
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