jhonny9546
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I'm actually the cool man 100%.
What are you? very curious!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Are you the cool or warm man?
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I'm actually the cool man 100%.
What are you? very curious!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Entire video presents a false binary(Bogart, Belmondo, and Mastroanni all possessed a fair amount of fire and force)and draws other conclusions which are questionable... Dunno that Cumberbatch has ever been much of a panty dropper, and self-described Feminist Gosling IS the sort of "warm" man the narrator describes
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And the ironic part is being a warm man is sometimes all you need to get her depending on the woman. Being cool is for the attraction, being warm is the connection and bonding factor. You just need a little teaspoon of coolness in the beginning of the relationship, then plenty of warmth from here on there if you got a quality woman.