jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I'm actually the cool man 100%.
What are you? very curious!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are you the cool or warm man?
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I'm actually the cool man 100%.
What are you? very curious!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Entire video presents a false binary(Bogart, Belmondo, and Mastroanni all possessed a fair amount of fire and force)and draws other conclusions which are questionable... Dunno that Cumberbatch has ever been much of a panty dropper, and self-described Feminist Gosling IS the sort of "warm" man the narrator describes
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And the ironic part is being a warm man is sometimes all you need to get her depending on the woman. Being cool is for the attraction, being warm is the connection and bonding factor. You just need a little teaspoon of coolness in the beginning of the relationship, then plenty of warmth from here on there if you got a quality woman.