"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you the AFC/ nice guy if...

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She has a picture you drew her (with a 'your beautiful' quote) stuck on her bedroom wall and she has sent you pics of her all dressed up with a piece of paper saying 'You're the best -your name- *love heart*'? Yet you are always the one to initiate contact although over the last few weeks she has started to occasionally contact you first?

Furthermore, you asked her out to dinner at the wrong time (before the weekend she was working and that week she was going interstate for 5 days). She told you she will be free when she gets back and will let you know then.

What is my best move here?

*The picture (I know I am going to get given abuse for it) was because we have this day every year where we do something special for each other. Her special thing was writing me a letter about how great a guy I am. Does that change anything?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ThisStopsNow said:
She has a picture you drew her (with a 'your beautiful' quote) stuck on her bedroom wall
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:crackup:

To answer your first question: YESS.
Then:
1 Wait for her to let you know.
2 Call her on the 6th day
 
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Wait for her to call you. Wait for her to bring up the date if she does call. If she doesn't call then you'll know she was never interested.
 
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The woman is pretty afc imho, she might just like that stuff. My afc/as*hole buddy used to get hand-written letters and teddy bears from one. Ha ha.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah. I've also been the guy to make out with her and receive a blow job after being "good friends" for about 7 years haha..
 
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