"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are you the AFC/ nice guy if...

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She has a picture you drew her (with a 'your beautiful' quote) stuck on her bedroom wall and she has sent you pics of her all dressed up with a piece of paper saying 'You're the best -your name- *love heart*'? Yet you are always the one to initiate contact although over the last few weeks she has started to occasionally contact you first?

Furthermore, you asked her out to dinner at the wrong time (before the weekend she was working and that week she was going interstate for 5 days). She told you she will be free when she gets back and will let you know then.

What is my best move here?

*The picture (I know I am going to get given abuse for it) was because we have this day every year where we do something special for each other. Her special thing was writing me a letter about how great a guy I am. Does that change anything?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ThisStopsNow said:
She has a picture you drew her (with a 'your beautiful' quote) stuck on her bedroom wall
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:crackup:

To answer your first question: YESS.
Then:
1 Wait for her to let you know.
2 Call her on the 6th day
 
Dust 2 Dust

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Wait for her to call you. Wait for her to bring up the date if she does call. If she doesn't call then you'll know she was never interested.
 
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The woman is pretty afc imho, she might just like that stuff. My afc/as*hole buddy used to get hand-written letters and teddy bears from one. Ha ha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah. I've also been the guy to make out with her and receive a blow job after being "good friends" for about 7 years haha..
 
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