"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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are you suppost to treat her like a fiend?

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Well theres this chick I like her name is Brianna. She is friends with my freind Gary. were the same age we have met each other twice and she is single. Well I like her I havent told her or havent gotten her number yet. But anyways even though I like her am I supposed to just treat her like I would treat my guy friends?

I just dont have much experience with women. so im asking you guys the experts. please help me out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok so you like her. Now its time to get yourself noticed. Nothing flashy, don't try to be a stud, show off, or become sexual all of a sudden.

You need to let her know that are interested in her. Just be yourself, don't be nervous. Talk with her, flirt with her, get to know her, and within the first couple days, or even hours. You should be able to tell if she is interested in you.

If you get any of these clues, that show she is interested. Get her number, heck even if she doesn't, get her number, you might be able to get to know her better, and maybe she has some hot friends. But whatever you do.. don't wait too long. You have a window of opportunity.. take it as soon as possible. Don't be afraid to be rejected, once its out in the open, then it can only get better from there, whether she take the bait or not.

Nothing worse than being friends with a girl, and ending up being infatuated with her for weeks or months, and gain nothing from it.
 
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You act like she's just another friend because you don't want to show signs of interest to her, but first you must appear as something valuable, something that she wants. You can appear valuable by using C & f, being confident, being scarce, and being a challenge.
I advice you to check out the DJ Bibble at the top right hand corner.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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