"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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are you suppost to treat her like a fiend?

killbill

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Well theres this chick I like her name is Brianna. She is friends with my freind Gary. were the same age we have met each other twice and she is single. Well I like her I havent told her or havent gotten her number yet. But anyways even though I like her am I supposed to just treat her like I would treat my guy friends?

I just dont have much experience with women. so im asking you guys the experts. please help me out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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juslen

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Ok so you like her. Now its time to get yourself noticed. Nothing flashy, don't try to be a stud, show off, or become sexual all of a sudden.

You need to let her know that are interested in her. Just be yourself, don't be nervous. Talk with her, flirt with her, get to know her, and within the first couple days, or even hours. You should be able to tell if she is interested in you.

If you get any of these clues, that show she is interested. Get her number, heck even if she doesn't, get her number, you might be able to get to know her better, and maybe she has some hot friends. But whatever you do.. don't wait too long. You have a window of opportunity.. take it as soon as possible. Don't be afraid to be rejected, once its out in the open, then it can only get better from there, whether she take the bait or not.

Nothing worse than being friends with a girl, and ending up being infatuated with her for weeks or months, and gain nothing from it.
 

n00bPimp

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You act like she's just another friend because you don't want to show signs of interest to her, but first you must appear as something valuable, something that she wants. You can appear valuable by using C & f, being confident, being scarce, and being a challenge.
I advice you to check out the DJ Bibble at the top right hand corner.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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