Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are you prey or predator?

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PROACTIVE: Predator

REACTIVE: Prey

Are you acting or reacting? Are you doing things that you want to do without giving a **** or are you falling prey to emotions and other people?

ACTION: Predator

REACTION: Prey

Are you acting or or reacting? Are you in charge of yourself? Or do you let social conditioning and authority dictate your actions? Are you your ego's *****?
Are you letting it smack you around or are you smacking IT around?

OFFENSIVE: Predator

DEFENSIVE: Prey

Are you bombing or being bombed? Are you constantly attacking that which is holding you back and attacking your goals? Or are you being attacked and defending against
stuff that doesn't matter?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would say nothing in life comes without diligence and setting targets. This applies to dating as in every other arena in life.
 
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