"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you prey or predator?

Love Me Do

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PROACTIVE: Predator

REACTIVE: Prey

Are you acting or reacting? Are you doing things that you want to do without giving a **** or are you falling prey to emotions and other people?

ACTION: Predator

REACTION: Prey

Are you acting or or reacting? Are you in charge of yourself? Or do you let social conditioning and authority dictate your actions? Are you your ego's *****?
Are you letting it smack you around or are you smacking IT around?

OFFENSIVE: Predator

DEFENSIVE: Prey

Are you bombing or being bombed? Are you constantly attacking that which is holding you back and attacking your goals? Or are you being attacked and defending against
stuff that doesn't matter?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ilikecharlene

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I would say nothing in life comes without diligence and setting targets. This applies to dating as in every other arena in life.
 
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