Are You Nervous?

[willtmail]

Do you guys agree with this?

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/nervous.htm

Basically, what he's saying is that it's okay to be nervous (in fact, not only is it ok, it's good) and that you should view that nervous energy as excitement.

Here's a quote:

"You'll ooze enthusiasm and energy... both of which are highly attractive qualities to women. You will then have a tremendous advantage in attracting this woman AND setting yourself apart from all the other guys. The cool, suave guys who never get nervous and who always seem relaxed around women will seem boring compared to you." (emphasis added)

 

[Walden]

No I think it's a load of bollocks.
You should be energetic cos you're energetic not cos you're mortally terrified of some Dennys cashier named Charleez who thinks global warming is "wack" , dreams of being a spokesmodel and just coincidentally has a nice rack.

 

[MetalFortress]

It's a good article because it teaches you to stop worrying and go for what you want. Stop worrying whether your nervous. AFCs worry - men just go for it. Go read Dee-Zy's sig.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

its not me, I just always believed in being cool, calm and collected when around a woman who blows my mind. Thats why if I do go out for coffee with a woman who I like its decaf or herbal tea. Coffee can make you more nervous, so can sugar.
I think nervousness can show through your character and reveals a small lack of confidence.