"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you in Connecticut or NYC, if so read this

paraguayandj

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I want to help somebody from Connecticut or NYC. I used to wing with another guy here a while ago and I miss those days. I do have a girlfriend now but still I am a great wingman so if you wanna hang out drop me an email at [email protected] or just respond to the thread.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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paraguayandj

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I prefer 21 and over, but if you are under age that's cool too.
 

dr0pxx

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www.CTBROTHERHOOD.com

Welcome to the CT Brotherhood. We are the original Connecticut lair (2003) which makes us the largest and most experienced. We break the lair mold in the fact we are a "brotherhood" where it is not all about pickup and girls. We are a social fraternity designed to create friendships within the group and promote advanced self improvement. To put this plainly- we are more than wingman, we are friends.

Many of us have come from a place of total insecurity in social interactions and have moved past this to a place of confidence and power. We want to help you improve and do the same. We offer a free forum, free bootcamps, guest speakers, monthly outings, and brotherhood events.

In this constantly expanding scene it is important for us to utilize the resources we have. One of the most important things we can do is to surrounded ourselves by people at different stages of development. Our group's greatest strength is in its diversity. We all learn from each other, and have unique experiences to share. New members' activity and input, not just questions, are highly encouraged.

Check us out at CTBrotherhood.com
or for further membership information contact us at [email protected]
 

pinhas

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Are there any DJ's in the NYC area that are still around and want to meet and go out together?

I am fairly new to this community and would like to go out with some like-minded guys and do some game.

Non of my friends are into this and are not willing to try.

I am 23, live in Brooklyn and go out mostly into the city.

You can email me at [email protected]

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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