"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you in Connecticut or NYC, if so read this

paraguayandj

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I want to help somebody from Connecticut or NYC. I used to wing with another guy here a while ago and I miss those days. I do have a girlfriend now but still I am a great wingman so if you wanna hang out drop me an email at [email protected] or just respond to the thread.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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paraguayandj

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I prefer 21 and over, but if you are under age that's cool too.
 

dr0pxx

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www.CTBROTHERHOOD.com

Welcome to the CT Brotherhood. We are the original Connecticut lair (2003) which makes us the largest and most experienced. We break the lair mold in the fact we are a "brotherhood" where it is not all about pickup and girls. We are a social fraternity designed to create friendships within the group and promote advanced self improvement. To put this plainly- we are more than wingman, we are friends.

Many of us have come from a place of total insecurity in social interactions and have moved past this to a place of confidence and power. We want to help you improve and do the same. We offer a free forum, free bootcamps, guest speakers, monthly outings, and brotherhood events.

In this constantly expanding scene it is important for us to utilize the resources we have. One of the most important things we can do is to surrounded ourselves by people at different stages of development. Our group's greatest strength is in its diversity. We all learn from each other, and have unique experiences to share. New members' activity and input, not just questions, are highly encouraged.

Check us out at CTBrotherhood.com
or for further membership information contact us at [email protected]
 

pinhas

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Are there any DJ's in the NYC area that are still around and want to meet and go out together?

I am fairly new to this community and would like to go out with some like-minded guys and do some game.

Non of my friends are into this and are not willing to try.

I am 23, live in Brooklyn and go out mostly into the city.

You can email me at [email protected]

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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