"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Are you guys actually worried about the coronavirus?

Status
Not open for further replies.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
5,747
Reaction score
2,964
Age
27
Location
Right behind you
****! My gym is closed! This **** sucks. Whatever I’ll have to make do with what I got. Two arms, two legs, a ground beneath me everywhere I go, and two 40-pound weight vests + a bunch of resistance bands left over from physical therapy. I could probably find a tree to do pullups on too tbh...
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
In order to accomplish this, chances are high that all debt payments will be pushed two months and then begin again after that. Meaning things like mortgage, car loans and rent would be suspended for two months.

The vast majority of Americans live paycheck to paycheck so they will ensure there is ZERO chance of them all be evicted or going bankrupt as a result of this national crisis.
What do the few those of us who don't have any debt get for being so prudent and frugal all these years? Where's mine?
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,401
Reaction score
4,069
There are two key things moving forward.

  1. Keeping the supply chain for critical items moving.
  2. Locking down people to contain the virus.
In order to accomplish this, chances are high that all debt payments will be pushed two months and then begin again after that. Meaning things like mortgage, car loans and rent would be suspended for two months.

The vast majority of Americans live paycheck to paycheck so they will ensure there is ZERO chance of them all be evicted or going bankrupt as a result of this national crisis.
Thanks to this post I did a bit of research. I've saved two car loan payments (can get another two more if this thing persists) and my mother got four mortgage payments deferred and won't have to make another payment in July. I didn't have to cry poverty, or even need an explanation. The phone hold time was very long and I figured other people were doing the same thing I was and tying up their lines.
I've also amended a chapter 13 arrangement from $ 20,000 in payments to $ 5,000 and hope that also passes because of this thing.

I was doing poorly economically before this hit, but now it feels like a cool thing that everyone's doing to save some money for themselves in the short-term and don't feel bad anymore. How can you call a bank to skip a four payments just like that? Wouldn't most people want a break like that. Good tip.
 
Last edited:

Infern0

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2015
Messages
1,637
Reaction score
1,462
We just got sent home for two weeks on full pay and there aren't even any cases for 500 miles but it's company wide.

Oh well free holiday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
5,747
Reaction score
2,964
Age
27
Location
Right behind you
I was checking out that whole QAnon stuff and it’s really weird. Part of me says apophenia, but another part of me says that it’s a little too coincidental lol
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
We just got sent home for two weeks on full pay and there aren't even any cases for 500 miles but it's company wide.

Oh well free holiday
We're still paying for ALL the teachers for the Rest of the year Here...
These women were ecstatic and they're not happy if you're not happy about their being happy about not having to work and still get paid. You really have to watch your facial expression around them and be happy for their indulgement of their leisure. I mean, most of their "work" is socializing half the day anyway, thus the term "socialism."
 

stovepipe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2017
Messages
965
Reaction score
1,084
I feel whats going on in the world is on a spiritual level. The truth of whats really going on is so unbelievable that most wouldn't even think it;s possible. With the fires that happened in Australia, the locusts in Africa, then this chit. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if the virus is a distraction for something bigger.

After Kobe passed I started to scratch my head is to why so many people were worshiping him like he was some kind of God for simply being really good at throwing a ball into a basket with style. My social media feeds were flooded with 100's of Kobe tattoos, memorials, people all over the world crying, dude making some over the top casket, people saying their lives will never be the same.

More worshiping than any other deceased celeb I think I have ever witnessed. Something just didn't feel right about the whole thing. Now I'm not saying what I posted below has any connection, but got dam it makes me scratch my head. Google Kobes burial site address for the double mind fuk.
 

Attachments

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,536
Reaction score
8,536
Age
37
We're still paying for ALL the teachers for the Rest of the year Here...
These women were ecstatic and they're not happy if you're not happy about their being happy about not having to work and still get paid. You really have to watch your facial expression around them and be happy for their indulgement of their leisure. I mean, most of their "work" is socializing half the day anyway, thus the term "socialism."
Teachers work longer hours than you do.
 

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,706
Reaction score
596
Location
Miami fl
The virus went "viral" in the social media age. But just like everything else that goes viral, it's 15 minutes will be up eventually. But of course, there will be "powers" that will leverage this for their own agendas.

Without social media it would have looked like this:

People are told to wash their hands more.

Sports would still go on.

Within 6 months a vaccine is produced. And even then a majority of people would opt not to take it and would be fine.

And the good ol seasonal flu (remember him?) would still go on to dominate, killing 30,000-60,000 a year in the US.

If anything, the wuhan virus serves as a test run for social media hysteria. Now the powers REALLY have a blueprint when it comes to mass propaganda, lol. I can only wonder what will come next.

It's like people are so used to living online that its starting to usurp actual physical reality.
well said but still better to be prepared then sorry wouldnt you agree
 

DelayedGratification

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2019
Messages
328
Reaction score
213
Age
61
We're still paying for ALL the teachers for the Rest of the year Here...
These women were ecstatic and they're not happy if you're not happy about their being happy about not having to work and still get paid. You really have to watch your facial expression around them and be happy for their indulgement of their leisure. I mean, most of their "work" is socializing half the day anyway, thus the term "socialism."
Ummm... dunno what dimension you live in, but it's not the same as mine.

Where I am, the schools are closed for three weeks. Which is a pipe dream, but I guess everybody from top-to-bottom needs time to process these new realities. Unless there's a nice fluffy rabbit hiding in that hat, we'll be lucky if school reconvenes in September.

But they are only physically shut. Every teacher in the district had until yesterday to bring on board a distance-learning curriculum to replace the traditional curriculum until students are able to physically attend school again. I'm guessing they were suddenly tasked with this over the weekend, which is going from 0-60 in almost no time at all.

This is the first day of "virtual school". The quality of what I'm seeing is uneven, but clearly everybody is working hard and in good faith. We're all just hoping that time and practice makes this better. Fortunately my boys are in high school, so they are rolling with it, and online classes---even if hastily put together---can reasonably fill the gap between traditional schooling and none at all. I can't imagine how this is working out for the elementary grades. What does an online-only curriculum even look like for a first grader? But I digress...

What I'm seeing and experiencing is not a collective "yay! recess for the rest of the school year!" Quite the opposite, it's "oh god how are we going to provide continuity for these students given the indefinite timeline we're faced with?" That along with a tremendous effort to use the tools available to make that happen, in an impossibly short time frame.

But yeah, you're right, it's all a Teacher's Union plot... :rolleyes:
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
5,747
Reaction score
2,964
Age
27
Location
Right behind you
It's the Trump coincidences which made me decide. That latest Nero thing is just way too coincidental.

Fake News hysteria attacking it also helped me realize it is probably real.
I was thinking the same thing, that was so blatant. Idk tho, a lot of it still sketch. Not to get too crazy, but I personally think it’s a mix of both (truth and falsehood).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Status
Not open for further replies.
Top