That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thanks for the advice, man! actually, i'm pretty thin (135 lbs for 5'9Originally posted by jakethasnake
Work out more. If you had about 15 pounds more muscle on you, I think a lot of Italian girls will think you're very hot. I know for a fact that the ragazze Italiane love the azzuri eyes, which you have. Lucky you. Just get more buff, you'll have Italian girls kicking your door down. That's some objective advice from a straight Asian dude. Good luck!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dude you dont look skinny at all, im 5'10" 132lb and i look somewhat skinny. but i pack all muscle and an awesome 6 packOriginally posted by Jay-X
thanks for the advice, man! actually, i'm pretty thin (135 lbs for 5'9), i'm tryin to get to 155lbs before summer, but that's quite hard!
Well, you might beat me on "cuteness", but I think I beat you on hairstyle. I don't think anyone appreciates the "Moe Howard" look from the Three Stooges anymore.Originally posted by jakethasnake
Bro, I've already deferred to your awesome greatness and championship-calibre face. And then you say that you're uglier than my 'Jackie Chan Mini-Me' face? You're just confusing me now...
Are you a hottie or an ugly turd?![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yep, and I started it.Originally posted by skeeloo
now this thread is kinda becomming gay.
1.That's a horrible pic of me.Originally posted by theSpeculator
With Tha Realnezz, I could tell he was full of $h1t from the context and style of his posts. All the things he has said were incongruent with my experiences.
good question.Originally posted by thefonz
I'm proud to say i got more muscle than all you guys, even though i'm not the most physically attractive, jay-x got me beat you sexy bastard. i say we keep these threads to a minimum because the more we focus on our looks the lower our self esteem becomes
P.S- anyone ever been told they DON'T have attractive eyes?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Then post a better picture! We've already know what you look like, so there shouldn't be problem with showing us another picture.1.That's a horrible pic of me.
I don't need to prove myself to anyone. I never ask anyone to post their picture. Of course, besides you. That is because you are the only one making a load of bull$hitt claims without any evidence to back it up.2.I haven't seen your pic,homie.
I think it's because you are a loser with an inflated ego.3.Why would I lie?
The title was not a real question. If I wanted to ask that I would've put it inside the body of my post. I wrote it to catch people's attentions.4.I'm not the one asking the dumb questions.
I am nice to everyone I meet. I treat everyone like equals. That is probably why no girls have treated me badly.5.If you beleive women are honest and get shy are nice around guys they like ...and stay that way even after they are ignored,you lack experience.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.