Are you at a disadvantage if you have a conservative image?

[WCS14]

By conservative, I mean you dress normal (preppy) and have

ZERO Tattoos, piercings, Jewelry etc,

I don't have any of that and NEVER plan on it.

I wonder if it is a disadvantage with women.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Obviously it differs with different women.

But in my case I'm pretty conservative, don't smoke or have tats.

And my ex gf is now with a guy that has tattoos, smokes shoulder length hair.

I think these guys give off the "bad boy" image whatever the fvck that means

 

[Maximus Rex]

Nigga Please

You're only at a disadvantage if you worry about such trivialities.

 

[Cremasta]

Depends on the kind of girl you're interested in.

If you want a tattoo'd goth chick, then you're probably not doing yourself any favours.
If you want a normal/preppy girl, then you're fine.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yep.

I'm starting to realize that even non-slvts want douchebags with tattoos.

I think it has something to do with dominance…women think you're more dominant if you have tattoos. Anything that adds to masculinity is huge with women. Being preppy is a huge disadvantage, because they will think you're a female.

Guys with shaved heads, muscles, and tattoos, get the hottest women on the planet.

 

[WCS14]

Yep.

I'm starting to realize that even non-slvts want douchebags with tattoos.

I think it has something to do with dominance…women think you're more dominant if you have tattoos. Anything that adds to masculinity is huge with women. Being preppy is a huge disadvantage, because they will think you're a female.

Guys with shaved heads, muscles, and tattoos, get the hottest women on the planet.

You see, this is where women are stupid.

Women see a guy with multiple tatoos and they see a "bad boy" who is a rebel going against societys rules by getting body art......little do they realize these douche bags are vain insecure fags who are have tattoos like every other a hole out there.

In fact, so many guys seem to have atleast one tatoo that those without them should be seen as the strong headed rebel by not getting tatted like everyone else and going against the grain.

But......women are too dumb to realize that.

I would fight to death, before somebody gave me a tatoo.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Nigga Just Stop

Yep.

I'm starting to realize that even non-slvts want douchebags with tattoos.

I think it has something to do with dominance…women think you're more dominant if you have tattoos. Anything that adds to masculinity is huge with women. Being preppy is a huge disadvantage, because they will think you're a female.

Guys with shaved heads, muscles, and tattoos, get the hottest women on the planet.

You also want to buy a$$. You need to f*cking quit. Really.

 

[SamTheHobit]

You also want to buy a$$. You need to f*cking quit. Really.

I actually think he has pretty good posts. So perhaps you should gtfo

I would fight to death, before somebody gave me a tatoo.

Same here. Tattoos are for short sighted people.

 

[pumpkin-head]

If you don't look ugly like the conservatives in the media and politics you will be fine.

 

[way2smart]

By conservative, I mean you dress normal (preppy) and have

ZERO Tattoos, piercings, Jewelry etc,

I don't have any of that and NEVER plan on it.

I wonder if it is a disadvantage with women.

You shouldn't leave a conservative image of yourself in women's mind.
Think of James Bond, he wears classic attire and gets all the women he wants.
That's the kind of impression you need to have on women, not that douchebagy tattooed uneducated trailer trash kind of guy impression.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

This line of reasoning will sooner of later have you looking like Rob Zombie's doppelgänger.

Caveat - be prepared to match who you are on the inside with the character you've put together on the outside...

 

[old_skoolr]

This is linked to every man now all of a sudden wanting to grow a beard. And that if men who don't have beards, aren't real men. I've also noticed some beta guys I know have started growing beards.

Beards, like tattoos and piercings are linked to that bad boy image that women dream about, and trust me those guys get girls. Problem is once girls realize there not really bad. They lose them just as quick as they got them.

Be a man, regardless of what you look like...and women will notice.

 

[El Payaso]

You're only at a disadvantage if you worry about such trivialities.

Spot on. Different women are attracted to different things.

 

[sylvester the cat]

This thread is ridiculous.

Eligibility had nothing to do with how you dress but a mixture of many factors:

Income
Dress sense
Attitude
Looks
Height
Build
Intelligence

To say all tattooed bearded men get all the hot women is stupid beyond words.

 

[Mike32ct]

Hamster logic...

A clean cut pretty boy is hot.

A clean cut average looking guy is boring/ugly*.


*I don't think there is anything wrong with a conservative look, but I'm not a chick lol.

But don't even think of getting tats JUST to impress women. If you want them, fine. But to mark up your body just for bishes is very lame.

 

[gov87]

I don't think this is a stupid thread to make. In fact, it's a thought that I'm sure many of us have thought about at one point or another.

Maximus said it perfectly- "You're only at a disadvantage if you worry about such trivialities."

Keep in mind that you just need to find the real you, be that, and own it. It's beta if you get a tattoo bc others are doing it and seem to be having success with the girls.

Old Skoolr said that once that image wears off, the girl is gone AND THIS IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT.

If you really want a tattoo bc YOU really want it, it's cool. If you don't like them, stand by that and you will stand out to girls. Tattoos or anything else like them don't build your inner self.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I've a conservative image, surely close to the boring range and can tell for sure that no girl ever approached me because of my style except some unattractive girl which tought I was a safe bet for them.

It doesnt matter cause I find myself more comfortable with no tatoos, piercings or alternative stuff, its simply not me, jeans and a plain t-shirt are ok.

However for few days couple of years ago I dressed with military boots, cut jeans and some rock dark t-shirt with skulls and a very short hair cut... I had two girls in that same week at the club to simply stop going where they were going to stand next to me just waiting for me to open, with both of them I've been making out after 5 minutes of conversation.

Usually with other girls there is no sign of sexual interest unless we spend enough time togheter, my look only works if coupled with my personality while the style itself flash boring to them.

Yet there is no chance in hell Ill be covering myself with tatoos or do some other extreme things, it simply is in conflict with the perception of myself, as much as Im immoral and rude to people my self image is the one of a decent classic man.

Anyway I can say that our style depends both on how we percieve ourselves but at the same time from what we are supposed to do, I saw myself getting more comfortable and traditional in style when I had a gf while now after many weeks of being single I noticed swifting into a less neutral style.

 

[Mike32ct]

Exactly. Even if you promise me that a tattoo would get me three HB10s per week lol, I still would not get one. It's not me.

A man has to own his look, even if it's not "optimized for maximizing wet panties."

Yeah looks matter, but you have to have a look primarily to please yourself, not women.

I look very boring and conservative, but when this lady dragged me on the dance floor at the Halloween party, she found out otherwise.

Short answer: Optimize your look somewhat, but stay true to yourself and just OWN IT. I don't care if you're a bad boy or nice guy or whatever.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You also want to buy a$$. You need to f*cking quit. Really.

Nigga please. No need to insult him for having a different opinion.

 

[uadialej]

So many guys seem to have atleast one tatoo that those without them should be seen as the strong headed rebel by not getting tatted like everyone else and going against the grain.









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