"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are you at a disadvantage if you have a conservative image?

bcollarmechanic

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imho nothing beats the classic clean cut look, and from experience, honest, cute, smart and funny girls are more attracted to the clean cut look, that being a nice hair cut, no tats, no piercings, and keeping your facial hair under control

now if its slvts, party girls, or tramps that you want then yes, all of the above will get you more attention from those girls

as you can tell from my name i was a born trade worker and still perform trade work, i grew up in a conservative family out in the middle of no where lol, so my attire is working boots, jeans, a belt and a t shirt, no tats, or piercings

probably doesnt make girls give me a second look but its who i am and its who im comfortable being and im not going to change that just to get a few extra girls, i do ok being me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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WCS14 said:
In fact, so many guys seem to have atleast one tatoo that those without them should be seen as the strong headed rebel by not getting tatted like everyone else and going against the grain.
Agreed, and this is the attitude (or "frame" if you prefer) that I have. I have no desire for a tattoo and I'll be damned if I get one just to get the attention of a few women.

The thing about clothing is that if you dress boring, you're not going to stand out. You don't have to have tats or wear skulls, but if there's nothing about your attire that jumps out at people, chances are you are going to fade into the crowd. That's one reason Mystery did the peacock thing.
 

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I've been thinking about wearing more all black outfits, or just black and white. I think it stands out and it can look kinda cool/bad boy type.
 

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No tattoos. No ear rings. No ridiculous caps. Nothing. Just highly groomed.

And trust me, I have a lot of success with women, much more than my friends with tattoos.

You just have to groom, and be confident on what you wear.... And chicks love seeing contrasts (ex: I wear suits on my work, so I love to "incidentally" meet them wearing a suit sometimes).

I don't even go to gym... obviously I practice some sports, have a somewhat athletic body, but no toned muscles. That **** only works on hairdressers.

As for my hair, I used to have it longer, thinking it would make me "cool", but now I'm ****ing girls 10 years younger than me with a classic short cut.

Just one advice: colours. Don't be too greyish on your dressing.
 

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Comatozed said:
I've been thinking about wearing more all black outfits, or just black and white. I think it stands out and it can look kinda cool/bad boy type.
Major error. Please look at my post above.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys who attract attention get tons of puss.

I sarged with a guy who has a bright red Mohawk. The moment he walked into the club, he started dancing with 3 random women and they wouldn't let go of him.
 
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