“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are Women "Turned On" by pursuit?

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"The females of numerous species often become sexually aroused and will ovulate if pursued and subject to mild sexual force. Female humans, primates, mammals, reptiles, and birds not uncommonly purposefully provide contradictory signals regarding sexual availability, one form of which is through flirting followed by flight. These female "mating" behaviors are designed to stimulate male sexual pursuit as well as female sexual arousal. Even if she initially runs away and seems disinclined, the females of innumerable species become increasingly sexually aroused when an aggressive, sex crazed male pursues and actively seeks her sexual favors. His pursuit and willingness to use force is a reliable gauge of her sexual desirability and the male's fitness as a mate. Moreover, when she flees, then resists, and is then penetrated by the male penis, she may ovulate thus insuring she becomes pregnant."


"Studies have also shown that some women will say "no" and may resist the male's sexual advances because it makes it more sexually exciting to offer resistance and for the male to overwhelm them and force them to have sexual intercourse. In fact, several studies have shown that young women who have been "date raped," continue to date and have sex with their "rapists." Indeed, following the "date rape" she may repeatedly masturbate while she fantasizes about the "rape." She may even marry her rapist. Of course, what we are describing here is not a violent sadistic rape perpetrated by a stranger, but mild force that the female responds to with "token" resistance only to acquiesce when she becomes aroused. Resistance overcome by mild force is a common staple of "romance" novels. More "romance" novels ("bodice rippers") are sold than all other genres combined."
"By contrast, she will generally never again date the male who acquiesced when she said "no." If a male takes her first "no" as a final answer and ceases to pursue, she will lose interest; though she may give him a second chance to use mild force by teasing him yet again. Likewise, in the animal kingdom, the male who gives up when the female resists, loses out on the opportunity to mate.

Some human females, in fact, report that they purposefully provide contradictory signals, and may reject and walk away from the man, as a test, even though they are attracted to him. Only the man who shows sufficient self confidence, and who indicates that the female is so desirable that he will continue to pursue, is provided an opportunity to mate and pass on his worthy genes."

"Woman is a biological being. Biologically she serves a single purpose which is to have sex and produce children. Biologically she serves these needs by sending powerful sexual signals which she may accentuate and exaggerate by her makeup, perfume and revealing clothes. These sexual signals are so powerful, she attracts women as well as men.

Biologically, she must also be penetrated, and in consequence, she becomes exceedingly excited and may even ovulate and experience multiple orgasms when sexually pursued, physically restrained, or forced to have sexual intercourse."

I know this might seem obvious...But if this were true..would we even need a site like sosuave?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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