"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are Women "Turned On" by pursuit?

rakishness

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"The females of numerous species often become sexually aroused and will ovulate if pursued and subject to mild sexual force. Female humans, primates, mammals, reptiles, and birds not uncommonly purposefully provide contradictory signals regarding sexual availability, one form of which is through flirting followed by flight. These female "mating" behaviors are designed to stimulate male sexual pursuit as well as female sexual arousal. Even if she initially runs away and seems disinclined, the females of innumerable species become increasingly sexually aroused when an aggressive, sex crazed male pursues and actively seeks her sexual favors. His pursuit and willingness to use force is a reliable gauge of her sexual desirability and the male's fitness as a mate. Moreover, when she flees, then resists, and is then penetrated by the male penis, she may ovulate thus insuring she becomes pregnant."


"Studies have also shown that some women will say "no" and may resist the male's sexual advances because it makes it more sexually exciting to offer resistance and for the male to overwhelm them and force them to have sexual intercourse. In fact, several studies have shown that young women who have been "date raped," continue to date and have sex with their "rapists." Indeed, following the "date rape" she may repeatedly masturbate while she fantasizes about the "rape." She may even marry her rapist. Of course, what we are describing here is not a violent sadistic rape perpetrated by a stranger, but mild force that the female responds to with "token" resistance only to acquiesce when she becomes aroused. Resistance overcome by mild force is a common staple of "romance" novels. More "romance" novels ("bodice rippers") are sold than all other genres combined."
"By contrast, she will generally never again date the male who acquiesced when she said "no." If a male takes her first "no" as a final answer and ceases to pursue, she will lose interest; though she may give him a second chance to use mild force by teasing him yet again. Likewise, in the animal kingdom, the male who gives up when the female resists, loses out on the opportunity to mate.

Some human females, in fact, report that they purposefully provide contradictory signals, and may reject and walk away from the man, as a test, even though they are attracted to him. Only the man who shows sufficient self confidence, and who indicates that the female is so desirable that he will continue to pursue, is provided an opportunity to mate and pass on his worthy genes."

"Woman is a biological being. Biologically she serves a single purpose which is to have sex and produce children. Biologically she serves these needs by sending powerful sexual signals which she may accentuate and exaggerate by her makeup, perfume and revealing clothes. These sexual signals are so powerful, she attracts women as well as men.

Biologically, she must also be penetrated, and in consequence, she becomes exceedingly excited and may even ovulate and experience multiple orgasms when sexually pursued, physically restrained, or forced to have sexual intercourse."

I know this might seem obvious...But if this were true..would we even need a site like sosuave?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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