"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are women put off by players?

TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
No, a true player never hides who he is and is proud of who he is. Whenever a girl says Im a player I will not hide it I will say something like YES or "Yes, and?" or anything in a playfull manner.

Sure you have SOME girls that say they dont like players but generally girls do, they just dont want to get caught with one or caught liking one.
true. don't hide it, but also don't flaunt it. women really don't want a player per se. rather they want a man that is in demand. there must be a reason why he is in high demand, right?

it's simple economics: the supply of players (DJ's) is low while the demand is high. hence the price (value) is very high. as human beings, we want things that are valuable.

here's my attitude, one which i frequently mention to women, verbatum...

"it will take a very special woman to pry me away from single-ville"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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