"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are we supposed to be fake?

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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This is one of the things that stops me from accepting all these philosophies. This fear of being fake . .

I want to be myself, and have someone like me and connect with me, not some character I build up. But I also look around and it seems like a lot of you stress the importance of loving yourself and being yourself.

Is that was this is all about, really? Because I can totally get behind that.

Totally got struck with oneitus over the last month . . thought I was stronger than that, but apparently not. What hit me this time was that I could seem to connect with this girl. Me, the real me . . thats so rare for me. Girls for the most part are boring people, IMO. I can't relate to them unless I'm pretending to be someone I'm not . . someone I don't particularly like . .

This girl was . . ah, you've probably heard this all before. But wouldn't you agree that most girls are pretty bland, personality wise? Thats the furthest thing from what I want . . It may be cliche but even the hottest girl in the world would start getting on my nerves if she wasn't unique or interesting, and frankly, a little weird.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Magnatolia

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er, where do you live? Girls around here have lots of personality, they usually just cover it up until they're comfortable around the guy. I've got female friends who are crazy and funny, in a good way.

I think maybe you're judging them while they are still 'guarded'.
 
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War Against Betaism

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When people first get into this stuff they think it's about becoming a person they aren't. Though on this site the underlying message here is about strengthening the person you are. Other seduction methods teach you all these tricks, techniques and lines while this forum is about becoming a mature man that naturally attracts woman. We all can't be kids forever, we mature eventually, and this site makes that process quicker in the disguise that we're going to be getting women.
 
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dude check out my latest thread ('im stumped') and see how i f'd up with too much game. key is to keep a balance, the main aim being showing your confidence
 
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