“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are we supposed to be fake?

Forty0ztoFreedom

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This is one of the things that stops me from accepting all these philosophies. This fear of being fake . .

I want to be myself, and have someone like me and connect with me, not some character I build up. But I also look around and it seems like a lot of you stress the importance of loving yourself and being yourself.

Is that was this is all about, really? Because I can totally get behind that.

Totally got struck with oneitus over the last month . . thought I was stronger than that, but apparently not. What hit me this time was that I could seem to connect with this girl. Me, the real me . . thats so rare for me. Girls for the most part are boring people, IMO. I can't relate to them unless I'm pretending to be someone I'm not . . someone I don't particularly like . .

This girl was . . ah, you've probably heard this all before. But wouldn't you agree that most girls are pretty bland, personality wise? Thats the furthest thing from what I want . . It may be cliche but even the hottest girl in the world would start getting on my nerves if she wasn't unique or interesting, and frankly, a little weird.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Magnatolia

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er, where do you live? Girls around here have lots of personality, they usually just cover it up until they're comfortable around the guy. I've got female friends who are crazy and funny, in a good way.

I think maybe you're judging them while they are still 'guarded'.
 

War Against Betaism

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When people first get into this stuff they think it's about becoming a person they aren't. Though on this site the underlying message here is about strengthening the person you are. Other seduction methods teach you all these tricks, techniques and lines while this forum is about becoming a mature man that naturally attracts woman. We all can't be kids forever, we mature eventually, and this site makes that process quicker in the disguise that we're going to be getting women.
 

themann

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dude check out my latest thread ('im stumped') and see how i f'd up with too much game. key is to keep a balance, the main aim being showing your confidence
 
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