"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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are we really meant to be together ?????

sac_hot_male

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ok first of all i have this one girls at my school and its seems as if where ever she goes i'm always there (and vice-versa).....we always seems eachother at school and eye each other and such like that but i havent make a move yet......

here are some true ideas that happens:

-when she went to one of my guy friend's house with his (my friend's) sister i just happen to went to his house on the same day and saw her there (two times this happens without me or her knowing that we are going over)

-just a couple of days ago at school when after the whole school was done testing on the first part of the test, and it was break time so me and a few of my friends went to the guys bathroom and she just happens to be infront of us going to a class room with her friends(she kept on turning her head back to look at me and i kept checking her out from behind too)

-later that day(2nd one from above) i walked home and when i came to the end of the block and about to cross the street, she and her friends walk passes me by (i looked at her and then just look down, she also looked at me too)

-this one time when class is over i never saw her went passes me by on these kind of days but somehow she happens to drop by

alot more but i'm sure i have wrote enough....its like even if i do try to ignore her my eye just kept on finding her as if we were magnet.....

so my questions is:

-are we really meant to be together?

-is it just a coincidence or is it destiny?

-am i'm over reacting?

-what can i do about this?

-what should i do about this?

cant really handle this by myself so help please
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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1. Nobody is meant to be together. To fool yourself into that is chumpish in my opinion.
2. Coincidence. Destiny is merely a word for people who refuse to take control of their lives.
3. Yes.
4. Stay on this site. Read the articles. Read the threads. Notice what you're doing wrong. I can tell you two things right now. A: You looked down. Unless down was at her butt, you displayed inferiority. B: You haven't made a move.
5. You should always do what you can.

Last thing, you can always handle this by yourself. You seem like you need a little bit of guidance, but in the end, we don't get the girl for you, you do. You do it.

You do it. We just offer advice.

I repeat, you do it.
 

sac_hot_male

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yea i figure it...


its almost at the end of the school years any ways so well see how it goes


thanks alot man...appreciated it
 

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ffff. C'mon man. I see the same girls at the gym everytime I go, it's coz they work there, not 'coz I'm meant to marry them. It's merely coincidence.

Don't analyse everything. Next time you see her, just say "wow, you again. You stalking me?" (with a friendly grin) and take it from there.
 

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It is just a coincidence! Dont fool yourslef in to all that "We ment to be together" Shyt. You will meet, fukk, bang, dump, kiss, like hundreds or maybe more women in your life/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol shydude your one ****y guy im going to start being more like you :D
 

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hey WesCottII hehe i love ur lines you just gave out....thankz man i'll probably used it out

i thought about it and it might just give things going for me...haha and again thanks

ohhh yea and shydude you are confident.... i'll might act up like you but not all thd time though
 

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ohh yea and one more thing WesCottII.....i dont meet her at the gym and stuff like that.....its like i met her almost everywhere i go to(just to set the record staight)
 

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sac_hot_male said:
ok first of all i have this one girls at my school and its seems as if where ever she goes i'm always there (and vice-versa).....we always seems eachother at school and eye each other and such like that but i havent make a move yet......

here are some true ideas that happens:

-when she went to one of my guy friend's house with his (my friend's) sister i just happen to went to his house on the same day and saw her there (two times this happens without me or her knowing that we are going over)

-just a couple of days ago at school when after the whole school was done testing on the first part of the test, and it was break time so me and a few of my friends went to the guys bathroom and she just happens to be infront of us going to a class room with her friends(she kept on turning her head back to look at me and i kept checking her out from behind too)

-later that day(2nd one from above) i walked home and when i came to the end of the block and about to cross the street, she and her friends walk passes me by (i looked at her and then just look down, she also looked at me too)

-this one time when class is over i never saw her went passes me by on these kind of days but somehow she happens to drop by

alot more but i'm sure i have wrote enough....its like even if i do try to ignore her my eye just kept on finding her as if we were magnet.....

so my questions is:

-are we really meant to be together?

-is it just a coincidence or is it destiny?

-am i'm over reacting?

-what can i do about this?

-what should i do about this?

cant really handle this by myself so help please
Make a move already. We're all behind you in support; post a FR, we'll assist you.

GOGOGOGO!
 

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Shydude isn't something special. The things he says may be over exagerrated, but he makes a valid point. If I analyzed every girl I got on, I'd be going crazy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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sac_hot_male said:
ohh yea and one more thing WesCottII.....i dont meet her at the gym and stuff like that.....its like i met her almost everywhere i go to(just to set the record staight)

Yeah, I got that man. I was just trying to illustrate that I see the same girls alot, but it doesn't mean i should be with them. Good luck pal.
 
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